why are girls so afraid to approach guys. With new laws in the USA if men say anything its "sexual harassment" girls need to step up and make moves. Men don't want to go to jail. TBH.
except a shy person is NOT going to put together a surprise party for a crush no way that involves too much publicity that they like them. an outgoing person MAYBE, though crushing makes you shy.
they can't be that shy if they can do that. i guess there are levels.. to me actual shyness is almost debilitating. to organize a party for a crush dealing with other people then showing up. thats a lot.
What about when you feel really confident she likes you you make mention and she finds out you like her. Now she goes from that to Avoiding you makes it a point to acknowledge everyone but you leaves you out. Blocks unblock on all social media.. then suddenly is nice
Unfortunately for the shy girls , many , if not most , males will read the signs , 4 & 7 , as " Stay away... do NOT interact... she is NOT interested " as rejections are the most common outcome for men... that's just how it is !! @QuestionsM22 , yes this is correct , not just USA , but in most Western countries too. A Western male has to be very careful in these #MeToo anti-male witch-hunt times.
TL;DR: Not a fucking mind reader. She expects me to make a move but I won't because she can't respect me enough to vocalize her thoughts and say it. Getting into a relationship with someone who can't even bother to let me know they are interested verbally means she will never be able to decide on a place to eat, what to wear, I assume the rest of her planning skills are subpar. Avoid.
I told feelings for a girl. I had no idea what was her opinion about me even after that. We were not "friends". I stopped to give her my attention and she got mad. I did all the work and she was just expecting that i will do all the work. Women logic. Irritating.
It's good to know all this but usually I go after "the girls I like", not "the girls who are crushing on me", if I'm lucky there is at least one girl who belongs to both groups. Still, much appreciated.
out of all those categories i can say i only had another girl with 3 so i guess i do better with men... although i've been with 5 girls only 1 long term.
I think I pick up on that when a girl exhibits that kind of behaviour. When I find a girl like that attractive, it's usually not long before I have her on the bed with her pants around her ankles.
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why are girls so afraid to approach guys. With new laws in the USA if men say anything its "sexual harassment" girls need to step up and make moves. Men don't want to go to jail. TBH.
dude go to my post!!
I've never been shy! not my type of thing to do!
I have options so if they don't like me i just move on, its as simple as that!
I LOVE SHY GIRLS THOUGH!
this is how most people act in crushing, i think.
except a shy person is NOT going to put together a surprise party for a crush no way that involves too much publicity that they like them. an outgoing person MAYBE, though crushing makes you shy.
Uhm I know few people who did this behind the scenes. I have gathered all these observations from real life people. :)
they can't be that shy if they can do that. i guess there are levels.. to me actual shyness is almost debilitating. to organize a party for a crush dealing with other people then showing up. thats a lot.
how did they pull it off -im curious :)
This mytake was so good that booked marked and never bookmark mytakes. It was like poem sent to me by my shy crush or something. Very insightful.
This was so me. Asked my husband out on a date, he accepted. I was too shy to give him my number, and he couldn’t ask because he was working. 😪
What about when you feel really confident she likes you you make mention and she finds out you like her. Now she goes from that to Avoiding you makes it a point to acknowledge everyone but you leaves you out. Blocks unblock on all social media.. then suddenly is nice
totally understand and can relate to what your saying
@Wheneveruready wish I knew what it meant.. right now there has been a two month silence
Unfortunately for the shy girls , many , if not most , males will read the signs , 4 & 7 , as " Stay away... do NOT interact... she is NOT interested " as rejections are the most common outcome for men... that's just how it is !! @QuestionsM22 , yes this is correct , not just USA , but in most Western countries too. A Western male has to be very careful in these #MeToo anti-male witch-hunt times.
TL;DR: Not a fucking mind reader. She expects me to make a move but I won't because she can't respect me enough to vocalize her thoughts and say it. Getting into a relationship with someone who can't even bother to let me know they are interested verbally means she will never be able to decide on a place to eat, what to wear, I assume the rest of her planning skills are subpar. Avoid.
This!
I told feelings for a girl. I had no idea what was her opinion about me even after that. We were not "friends". I stopped to give her my attention and she got mad. I did all the work and she was just expecting that i will do all the work. Women logic. Irritating.
@Wwwyzzerdd Right. I'm like TELL ME you fool, THEN I will make a move. I'm not psychic.
I am extremely shy. People ask me, "Why are you so quiet?" My crush even said, "You're so quiet." when I talked to him. My friends agree.
It's good to know all this but usually I go after "the girls I like", not "the girls who are crushing on me", if I'm lucky there is at least one girl who belongs to both groups. Still, much appreciated.
Great take. I think this can apply for guys too. I exhibit most of these traits with my crush
Damn I think I might have missed a chance after reading this.
then text her :)
It's faaaaaaaaaarrrrr to late
If I like her, and she doesn't give me signs back I'm not bothering. That should be everyone's motto here
Well, that settles it. I don't have a shy girl crushing on me.
out of all those categories i can say i only had another girl with 3 so i guess i do better with men... although i've been with 5 girls only 1 long term.
So many girls behave this way towards me. Plus a lot of girls are shy around me.
Makes me regret even more that I failed to notice that a girl I crushed on also crushed on me, and pretty heavily.
yes i am familiar with most of these signs. im even guilty of doing some of these myself
I hate to see these things. But I am addicted to here.
Thanks for sharing it, might help for someone!
I think I pick up on that when a girl exhibits that kind of behaviour. When I find a girl like that attractive, it's usually not long before I have her on the bed with her pants around her ankles.