Why does he always wait for me?

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Why does he always wait for me?

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This guy I like, who likes me back (I've asked him before) always waits for me at school, and I always wait for him. If we have the same class, we always wait for the other person. We both don't do this for anyone else.

After a test today, he left the classroom before me and when I got outside, he was there waiting for me which was really sweet.

I wait for him because I like him and love being around him. Why does he wait for me, is it the same reason? He once said something about it being an unwritten rule and he just does it.

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UPENDRA123
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The guy seems to have very good understanding. But at this point of time it can't be said that he loves you or treating u as a good friend. In both the cases similar thing is there.

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- meowcatwoman
  
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  Very good understanding of what? He wouldn't love me lol, but we were good friends before I started liking him, not sure how long he has liked me for but I know it is at least a year.
- UPENDRA123
  
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  Understanding how to carry a relationship. Till now u r friends. But surely going further u can be good partners.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  Yeah, we aren't girlfriend and boyfriend. We are friends who act more than just friends. So him always waiting me shows that he knows how to be a good friend?
  
  I would love to go further with him, we both just haven't being in relationships before or anything... what we have is new for both of us, and is special, at least to me :)
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- UPENDRA123
  
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  Thats what i am telling you. currently you both are good friends. The guy dont have any such sex feeling for you. It is called friendship (love without expectation) . Going forward when you have good time spending outside , he may express it by saying that he loves u a lot. Till here sex is not involved. But when you both start loving each other , u touch each other, kiss each other , hold hand to hand ,, then the love reaches to new feeling of sex. And here it arrives.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  "The guy dont have such sex feeling for you." I wish he did actually. We have touched eachother before, stroking eachother's legs and waists under the table in class without anyone knowing... (me initiating it of course). I even kissed him last month... my first kiss, his first kiss (he blushed so hard). I am always touchy with him lol. i have no problem leaning on him or touching his leg casually. I feel I'm more sexually attracted to him then he is to me. He respects me, it is actually very touching that he doesn't want me physically but actually generally likes me. i am the one actually who can picture being sexual with him, but he obviously isn't up to that stage.
  
  Until then, I don't know how to progress further. We are currently just good friends who really like eachother.
- UPENDRA123
  
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  You just keep going as it is going now. Time will manage everything very soon.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  People always say this but I don't see how time makes a difference. It's what you do in the time that makes the difference. It's not going to be like one day he realizes he wants me to be his first girlfriend or we get caught in a room and we randomly make a move on eachother. lol
- UPENDRA123
  
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  You need to have a chat with him. You will have to say that you are very positive about him. Does he also feels the same. Then see what he replies. this is what to develop a positive enviornmrnt for something.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  Sounds very mature lol. So I have to tell him I like him and think it could work between us? He does like to be told things straight I guess, he doesn't ever get it when I say things abstractly... u are right
- UPENDRA123
  
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  THANKS FOR LIKING MY COMMENT.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  NO PROBLEM. so i guess for now though, i should keep doing what im doing with him,

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Call_me_Kaizar
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You gave the answer. You yourself said that he likes you back. And yeah he really likes you so smile and propose him and don't wait for him to propose.
All the best :)

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Do you go to wilow international college? Lol.

Most likely he likes you back.

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- meowcatwoman
  
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  No, sorry. You must be in the same situation with a girl.
  
  I know he likes me back :) I've kissed him before (he went all shy, so adorable) and he still chooses to wait for me haha. If he didn't like like me, we would be awkward from me kising him.
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Lol not me but i know someone who is hahah.
  
  He likes you for sure. I wouldn't do that if i wasn't interested in the girl I'm with. What makes you doubt things?
- meowcatwoman
  
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  I don't doubt the feelings we have for eachother. I doubt that things will go further. I'm the first girl to show interest in him and honestly, if I never asked him if he liked me, I still wouldn't know about it. He blushed so hard when I first asked him (out of character for him), even though that day, it was so obvious he liked me through his body language. oh, and he said yes shyly (very out of character for him!)
  
  We have the spark, but how to ignite the fire with him, I don't know.
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Hmm i see. Props to you for being forward enough to ask him that. We need more girls like you in this world lol.
  
  If he's 'the shy type' then it will probably be best for you to make the moves first until he gets comfortable. I'm sure he'll open up soon.
- meowcatwoman
  
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  Haha, me asking a guy if he likes me is so out of character for me XD just with him, I was certain he liked me and I just wanted to know.
  
  I have been making all the moves. So funny how he isn't a shy person yet he is shy when it comes to the fact he likes me. It is adorable but also puts lots of pressure on me to make the moves. I'ved initiated flirting, always touch him, asked if he liked me, kissed him, what next? XD
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Lol i see. He hasn't opened up yet?
- meowcatwoman
  
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  Opened up? No lol. When I asked him, he said it was awkward to answer then he finally said yes, but was very shy about it. Ever since then, he hasn't spoken for his feelings for me, but it's obvious he has feelings for me ^_^ i wouldn't expect HIM to open up anyway lol. he has told me his secrets though, he trusts me
- Opinion Owner
  
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  I see. He seems quite reserved/shy. It's a good thing he trusts you.
rUinSAYAN
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sounds like a couple to me

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- meowcatwoman
  
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  We aren't though.

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Ormazd Xper 5 · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty sure he likes you.. otherwise He wouldn't spend time with you, He obviously appreciate and enjoys your company so don't hesitate on showing him more! because he seems a shy dude & I'm sure he is a nice guy

Why does he always wait for me?

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