How to convince a girl to give you head

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shes done it before

JenniferBrown · Accepted Answer

You want to convince a girl to give you head? First, you have to understand WHY do women give blow jobs in the first place. Once you know that, getting her down to business is a lot easier than you’d think.

Why do women give blow jobs?

For a number of reasons. Some women LOVE their man BECAUSE he is what they want ( that’s another story ) and because they want to make him happy and keep him happy ( and loyal ), and they believe that giving him regular, high quality blow jobs will accomplish that. Other women give blow jobs out of fear. They are scared that if they don’t give their guy a blow job - he’ll dump them for another chick that will. Some women give their man blow jobs because they simply crave having his penis deep in their mouth, and seeing him get pleasure makes them feel amazing AND powerful. Yes, powerful. In general, the main reason women give blow jobs is because of power. Let’s leave it at that, for now. It’s a bit more complicated.

How to convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job?

Now, that’s a bit more complicated, especially if she never or rarely gives you blow jobs. First, re-examine your own behavior. Are you behaving like a sissy? Are you indecisive all the time? Is she the boss of your relationship, or you? Or is it a “democracy?” Your girlfriend will give you more blow jobs if you start behaving more confidently, and take control of your relationship and your life. Be more decisive and more dominant in your life and your girlfriend will instantly be more interested in giving you a blow job. Here are 3 exact things you can do that will help you convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job ( without having to beg for it ).

1. Hit the gym. Get abs. Yeah, maybe that sounds like a lot of work, but it WILL give you more blow jobs. That’s a fact. If not from your current girlfriend, then from some other one. I’ll explain you why later.

2. Stash up a ton of money, and start your own business. This also works well. Even better than going to the gym regularly.

3. Get really, really good at something. Anything. Become an expert at something. Find one thing, focus on it and find out everything about it. When you’re great at something, you become more valuable to society, and your girlfriend or wife. When a woman wants to keep you, she’ll do anything - even give you a blow job every day.

All these things will make it easier for you to convince your girlfriend to give you a blow job. These are the basics. If you are serious about making your penis into a MAGNET that your girlfriend is ADDICTED to, you have to read Jack’s Blowjob Persuasion - link

starsky · Accepted Answer

i know this is totally against all the "gift giving spirit", but honestly, with oral, I'm more likely to give when I'm receiving too.. don't expect her to give you something you're not willing to do for her. so the best way to get her to give you head? pleasure her... finger her, give her head... she'll owe you, and if she cares for ya, she'll prob be more than willing to return the favor.

or is it that you have been giving her head but she's not returning the favor? hint at it, or if that's not working, time to talk. alternatively, and this is kind of commanding way about it, but try sliding into the 69 position... you'll be perfectly positioned for some head, and she'll probably get the point and be more than willing to pay you back for all the pleasure you're giving her. be really careful about taking that route tho, it's pretty easy for a guy to seem overbearing.

if it's that she's decided that giving you a bj is gross or something, maybe consent to letting her give you head through a condom? won't be quite the same, but better than nothing, right?