You may be right :/. How can I let him know that but without being too rude?
I totally feel for u it is hard to turn a guy down, especially if he's sweet. but its a lot harder on him when u lead him on. he will start feeling for u. just be straight up with him.
Yeah I do like him back and all but I'm just way too scared. Like i have not dated anyone else and this would be the first guy and with him it is the total opposite he has dated a lot of girls that's why it is really easy for him to just show up and have luch like nothing but it is not like that with me. That's why i texted him that "it might be easy for him because he's done it before but i have not. That I seriously thought he understood the type of background i came form but i guess i was wrong. That to me this is not a joke." Was that good enough?
well if ur into him give it a shot, if he respects u he will let u make the pace. if u feel u want it too u gotta take a chance. if he keeps bugging u about lunch it sounds like he's trying to take it slow. good luck!
Thank You. :)
He likes me and I know he wants to take our friendship to the next step. I just don't feel ready for any of that.
But it's just lunch, it's not like he's gonna propose to you...
That is so true but what if you've really never dated a guy before? Hence the lack of experience.
Well, perfect time to gain some right?
True but i'm just too scared and sort of shy.
You have to start somewhere.
Thank you for the help. :)
You're welcome, Thanks for mho
If you go out with him, and you're not ready, isn't that not only leading him on... but being a gold digger as well?
@YoureBeautiful not if she tells him how she feels. how is it gold digging?
She ain't gonna tell him how she feels, she can't even go out with him, let alone tell him how she feels. If she goes out with him, when she knows she's not ready, isn't that gold digging? (using someone for their money) but not really showing any affection back
@YoureBeautiful I would assume in his eyes just showing up would be showing some affection back. I still don't see how that's gold diggin... When my lady friends ask me to have lunch or dinner and they know I always pay does that make them gold diggers? No...
You're pussy whipped man... they can at least offer to pay. They should never EXPECT you to pay. Now of course you still pay but that's wrong of them to assume you're going to
@YoureBeautiful You can say pussy whipped but am I really? They don't ask me to go out for lunch or dinner just cause I pay... I've just always paid since I was younger cause thats how I am, I've been brought up to do so.
But they shouldn't expect you to. You're pussy whipped. Man up!
@QA: If you want to go out with him, go out butttt make sure you're doing it for the right reasons... as I've mentioned to the answerer
I never said they expect me to?
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Exactly. I just lack experience unlike he does and it just isn't that easy for me to just go with the flow.
This has nothing to do with experience. If you don't want to date, say no. If you want to date, you require 0 experience to take the -first step-.