Awesome, thanks for MHO :)
That doesn't sound like a serious answer lol.
No, it totally is serious. I'm honestly less attracted when a guy shows how much he wants to be with me than I am with a guy who plays like he doesn't. It's a serious fuckin' issue.
Care to elaborate?I mean if you're attracted to a guy who doesn't have interest in you, that's gotta be a difficult route to take especially if you manage to be with that guy.
I want what I can't have, and when I know I can have someone they lose their appeal. That's really all there is to it.
I kind of don't get it sometimes. I get mentioned that females love to get pursued and get the intellect that the male has interest, and then when it doesn't work out the male doesn't give a shit moves on and the female starts doing the chasing? I've seen this happen too many times that I lose count.
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This had nothing to do with manipulation...
That's exactly what it is! Oh you don't like me under normal circumstances? Let me manufacture this situation so I can try and make you feel the way I want.
What if the guy never/lost interest in you and sudden just minded his own business for weeks? It really isn't being manipulative unless it's in his intentions which you can never tell unless if he makes it clearly obvious.Not saying you're wrong but it creates multiple routes and manipulation isn't the only route.
Then I would assume he was too busy with his own thing to have time for me and move on. If I'm not interesting enough to hold his attention we're probably not going to work out anyway. Why prolong the situation when neither of us is happy?
What if the Great personality guy doesn't have interest?
If he's THAT great, I'll chase. But in general, I don't chase. I like to be pursued lol.
What if he/she WAS interested, and you had all that attention, interest from that individual, would you miss it?
Simple, a male who you got to know of and find attractive, good character gives you attention, interest, etc. and after awhile just stops. You crave the attention, miss him, starts pursuing him?
I'd wonder why he suddenly went cold but I doubt I'd lose sleep over it