I think you're asking for more than anyone on these forums can give you by way of an explanation. In other words, it sounds complicated. Still, from the outside, there's obviously something bothering him (perhaps your bf?) and he doesn't feel like he can fully give himself to you or that you're unwilling to do the same. It could be that he DOES have deeper feelings for you and that your open relationship is the roadblock; he doesn't want to be "the other man." Again, I'm grasping at straws here but it's clear to me that he IS still attracted to you or he wouldn't have done all of the other things with you - especially making out. Not sure what else I can offer here.
One final note - this really belongs more in the Behavior forum - you might get more/better responses there. Good luck - sorry you're hurting.4 0 0 0Hi. I really appreciate your answer. It gives me something to think about. The thing is, he's told me in the past he doesn't want a relationship with me. So I find it hard to believe that he would. I have heard from other men that men in general don't need a pretty girl to get it hard. But It just doesn't make sense. Indeed what you say he must be attracted to me...But its all so contradicting. Thanks for your opinion!
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He's no longer comfortable being your friend with benefits but he's still attracted to you enough that it took him some time to sort out his feelings before he told you "I can't do this." But then you didn't respect his no and just started sucking his dick again without his consent. The fact that he's been into it in the past doesn't mean you're entitled to him in the future, and frankly you crossed the line into the legal definition of sexual assault. You're allowed to be hurt that he didn't want to have sex with you, and you can even be offended that he was willing to let you pleasure him and then didn't return the favor, but once he said no it was on you to STOP.
2 0 1 0It soundsl ike he is upset about something. It's not that you're not sexy to him, he obviously thinks so or it would have never even got that far. If I had to guess it's the boyfriend that is the issue. It seems that like you, he also has underlying emotional feeling towards you that he tries to keep hidden.
1 0 0 0Never would have thought he could have an underlying emotional feeling towrads me. He's always said in the past that he liked me but wasn't in love etc. Thanks for your input. It helps.
Maybe he keeps it hidden for fear of rejection. He obviously cares a lot about you to stick around though. If I had a weird night like that, a fight, or any little mishap like this and I didn't care about the person I wouldn't be sticking around. He obviously cares, it seems more than you realize.
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1 1I think he was afraid of getting u pregnant
0 0 1 0talk with him, he is the only one that can give you the answer you need to hear.
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