Again, women have never had to ask themselves these questions or deal with things from the other side, so what do they know?When you approach a woman, you have to do it right. Every guy has an equal ability to walk up to a girl and act all nice, or walk up and tell her that her ass looks amazing in those jeans and he's down to fuck.It's literally just gambling every time you walk up to a woman for that reason alone.
And that's not even counting the stuff that @Anpu23 said, which are other factors involved. Guys basically have to sit there and figure out all kinds of things about you before they can do anything, unless they're the kind of guy who just doesn't give a fuck whether he gets you or not, and doesn't care if he fails. Those guys can just do what they want to whoever they want because they don't care if they get rejectedAnd women think these guys make better mates... A guy who proves that he doesn't care about her as a person, and that he could easily replace her. That's what women look for in a man
I'm always reading something but that doesn't mean that I don't wanna be approached. I'm always reading because I'm a writer, so is like a thing I do all the time when I'm alone. I've been approached while reading with just a simple great line "great book" always works with me, a guy once told me that he had never read the book I was reading but he said that he just wanted to talk to me, seemed pretty sincere and I liked that and I explained what the book was about, we had a great talk and it was at the airport, we both departed to different countries but we stay in touch. My point here is girls will always try to look busy when they are shy or uncomfortable around stranges or crowds, so that is the perfect moment to approach them.
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This is so cute
@snowyowl u are cuter ;3
That's because she is shy lol. A guy at work is always chatting with me, but I barely speak 3 words to him. He makes me nervous. I get very uncomfortable when he looks at me lol.
im so sorry to hear that
well you really should... if you dont approach then how are you suppose to get to know what they really think about you
I tried in the past, I've put a lot of effort in and it payed off, but she did say she originally thought I was an asshole before getting to know me! lol. I probably am and it's a common trait that shy girls are just observant. lol
ahah ya but secretly we dig assholes lol
i guess it depends on how shy they are and how they feel about you
... so true, I'm shy & this very cute guy tried to talk to me, and I barley responded. I didn't know what to say, so I said little to nothing.
lol sorry to hear that
thats awesome! there should be more guys like you lol
i guess thats the best thing to do
so then u must be shy
Yes I am very plus all the storys from my sister bashing men and calling them pigs and so on made me feel to never bother any woman, she told me so many storys as a kid and it always stuck with me to this day.
I can assure most of the girls I know aren't like that. Seriously who insults someone for asking you out?(unless they are a stalker who keeps asking)
They would bash all men and they scared me to death as a kid making me think never to bother going up to a single woman
I am extremely shy