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It's easy for us because our prize in life is most definitely not a relationship. Sounds bad, but listen for a second. It is a woman that usually puts the emphasis into each relationship, if the man likes what's happening, he'll run with it. A man is more concerned with his legacy, or peer image. Always improving his status. I exaggerated a bit, but I think it gets the idea across. As for her looks... we don't care if a woman has the prettiest package, however we do care about what she's willing to do with it. *just being honest* I'm not at all trying to antagonize you, but this statement isn't accurate( "the girl he is replacing me with is not at all pretty") What you see is perception, what you hear is opinion.
its because us guys wana make sure were sleepin with someone new before you girls... and obviously its a lot easier for a girl to get laid then a guy... so us guys tend to drop our standards temporarily to make sure we sleep with someone new before you do so it doesn't hurt us as bad.
hes probably hurting and needs someone to kind of cover that up or help him through it, and he can't talk or be with you so he needs someone right away. she was probably available and willing...and I don't know you, but there is a trend us guys see about pretty girls...theyr'e a lot more work, to keep, to entertain...sometimes girls that are less pretty are more loyal and easier to keep happy...just a suggestion
Well my ex is torn...he said that he wants to move on and be with this new girl...but he also wants to see me once more but he doesn't know if he should because its wrong as he's with someone else and is supposed to be moving past us....weird thing is he broke up with me!!! so what is his deal? is he over me or not? does he really want to be with this new girl?
OMG! I am in the exact same postion as you! my ex's exact words were "why the f*ck wouldn't I care? I still f*cking care for you but I don't f*cking want to!". and he was the one who ended things. why the hell to guys do this?!?! they shouldnt care if they're with someone else. its not fair on their new girlfriend and also they have no right to care about the things you do!. sorry probs with a jealous ex who I don't get :@
Because guys get hurt just as much as girls but we aren't allowed to go around and show it so we move on by finding another girl and focusing our attention on her to distract us from the sh*tty situation. Which is exactly what I am doing right now.
I like that you are so honest.... Not at the situation.
Gotta be, it's the only way you girls will learn anything lol.
Us guys, men, boys...will always do something to get over the last chick we were with...and that's doing a few chicks, lap dances, or buy something expensive to get over it. All those things can be done quick. Why would a guy sit and roll around in the past? It make us look weak to the average guy. So we will do something quite different to pacify what we are feeling.
Because you feel like he didn't see you as that pretty.
You think he looks upon you as uglier as her.
Not conciously but subconciously.
u shud not make his life continously about u. he is not replacing you he is moving on with his life what does it matter what the girl looks like it is not ur life its his stop tryying to be apart of relationships end for a reason
Sorry but did I manage to p*ss you off? Seeing as you don't know me you seem to have taken what I said very personally....I'm not trying to be a part of his life, if he wanted me gone then he knows all he would have to do is say so, our relationship ended for many reasons that I don't care to elaborate on, some of those reasons were influences from his family and friends. If he truly cared about her he wouldn't be coming to me...the beginning of relationships are supposed to be starry eyed and....
Just about the two of you, you are not interested in talking to never mind having sex with an ex if you really like the person....I'm not the one seeing someone else..he is...therefore its not me whos at fault.
Im not mad or irratated or anything that is just what I think of ur situation, to me it looks like you are just trying to hard tobe apart of his life and he is trying to move forward.
u are putting a tone to me text and ther is none
(in a sarcastic tone) guys like sex so I've heard and you are giving it to him
haha
Yes its true perhaps I am trying hard to be a part of his life but its only because he is letting me in and I still love him....and if he had moved forward surely he'd have no contact with me at all....
Thats not nessaryly true. guys like attention just as much as me and you and most girls attention is nice and sometime (for me) when I don't noe were I can get attention wen I want it (if I'm sad or upset or excited [not sex attention]) and I can't find some one to talk to that care (they are at school or work or watever) I noe tat 2 of my past exs wil listen always because we were in a relationship and they care for me still but we all understand that we are the past and it would be awesome if I had
Yes but he's talkin to me on skype while he's texting her so its not about gettin attention when she's not around....i don't know...its a hard situation and I don't understand it at all..
Wat I had with either of them but it is the past and we have grown and changed and even in the relationship we changed that's how I noe now that it will not be smart for us to get back togeather. if you like twilight, like in the second book, new moon edward of course loves and wants to be with bella but he is afraid and chooses not to be tho he still wishes it was possible. I say that to prove ur "and if he had moved forward surely he'd have no contact with me at all" statment false
Maybe you shud tell him something along the lines of... John are you trying to hurt me?... then please can you stop coming to me for sex, can you stop talking to me like you can, can you not talk to me like we are togeather...
u miss anomous shud log off skype or block him it will hurt tones but some times to get over someone you love you have to loss them this is y I believe people usually do not stay friends after break ups because it is hard to go back to friends wen you were once more. maybe you can try ur ...
Hardest to avoid him... you are lucky you have a hours drive distance.
i actually been here it is reallly hard to avoid someone you truly care for reallllllllllly hard. you will un block him to see if you wrote you any comments, you will listen to the voicemails and read the text. its hard
and depending how in love how much history you have will affect ur healing. try to find a rebound guy. don't be picky, and choose not to fall in love with him unless ur togeather for more than 6months or so
Just get distracted. maybe tats what he is trying to do. maybe but who cares rite.
Ur anonymous too!! I know exactly what you are saying, I really am not stupid even though I know I my actions say otherwise...i just don't want to let go...i know deep down its over, that we will never be anything more than we are now, but I guess part of me wants to keep the little I have left...
As a girl I think female hearts like the feeling of being broken that's y we fall in love... to break up :(
u have a big piece of him already. he is in ur heart and he always will be.
i think wen 2 people fall in love they exchange a piece of ther hearts so a piece of him is in you and a piece of you is in him always always always. liars say they completly forget ther loves.
I am justhat1chick
It's mostly a defense mechanism for us to better handle the breakup. Also culturally and biologically because we men don't have the pressure of having a baby so we can simply move on with less stress.
-MaxPrime
Not every guy moves on as fast. But if he does move on quickly, it's in indication that he was cheating on you and planning to leave you long before he did.
maybe she is not looking for a beauty queen. maybe they jive in so many ways. and guys like simple things...maybe your guy just want a simple, relax relationship. sometimes being a diva gives them a freak... well, maybe he is not that into you... that's all. move on...
i think it might an ego thing like oh 'i can get another one easily' or like someone else said, he's hurting. well either way, it's kinda hurtful to his ex if he moves on so quickly.
its just to show you not the only girl in the world and he can get any one if he really want to, its a matcho thing we will never get it.
because they're pricks, who probably didn't give a sh*t in the first place. in other words...just sex.
Having a new girl helps you forget the last girl. It is as simple as that.
Good Luck,
James
Not true... Time is the Best choice
That is not true.
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Moving on is the fastest way to forgetting, I would probably do the same (Sorry telling the truth)
We dont, we just simulate that we do, its the manly thing we do. would you prefer a guy that cries and cries after breaking up? Not very manly huh?. Trust me its not easy to move on
I have seen it both ways, I think that it depends on the person
Here is a site that can help you get over it...
www.MOVEON.org
I don't care what age what they say or what they do, it takes at least 9 months to get over a girl they truly liked.
Does the same go for woman