Having a life shouldn't be classified as sny part of hard to get. It's not in the middle or on either endIt's just having a lifeHaving no life would be bad whether you like a guy and want him to likr you or notYou should be able to be honest without the guy thinking you're trashy If a oerson only pretends to have interests to look not trashy or desparate then they have other issues not related to the person they like,
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Get out of here feminist.
You must be very intelligent.
This whole rant was unintelligible nonsense...
How am I unintelligent? The OP asked a GUYS opinion on when women play hard to get and you turned it into bashing men.
yeah a lot of typos. Couldn't see it on my iPhone.Whats your excuse?
anyhow in my opinion if someone only likes you when you play games that's the relationship you have to look forward to. It will be full of games. Advertising yourself as a game , is going to attract people who play games not people you might actually get along with. If a person likes you, for you, then games should annoy them. Not entice them. Well you'll figure it out. Go play games see how that works. Then try acting like a sane responsible reliable trustworthy human being. See which one suits you.Of course anyone who does not have anything to do other then fawn over their crush is going to have to do some pretending in order to not appear psychotic. It would be much easier and more productive to just get a life. Be genuinely busy. be genuine in the company of whomever you like.I am surprised people ask about games , when logically you would not want a relationship with a player. Yet somehow magically it's going to start off as a game then solidify into a real relationship. Unlikely.
You're still not understanding the question. OP is asking when a girl plays hard to get, what do guys think of it. Meaning, when a girl purposely ignores a guy to see if he really wants her and NO guys hate when girls do this. Weird you went anonymous cause your post gave me cancer.
An excellent point.
don't you think if ur easy to get u'll be easy to forget ;)
No not really. I will only forget person, if they are not worth thinking about. what's makes you think you are so special compared to the next girl? what can you give me that is so special, that is worth chasing you for? cause looks and body, is not good enough, That's the very basic package of a women. I will never chase after a women, just for her looks and body.
Playing hard to get, is a form of playing games. Playing games, is not a good start to a relationship. Because if a girl starts playing games with me, before starting a relationship, my trust for her has already gone. If you are playing hard to get, it will also make me question, whether you are actually interested in me. After a certain period of time, I begin to think, she is not really interested in me, and I move on to the next girl. So basically you making chase you, has backfired on you. So you in essense you lost out on someone, who could give you an amazing time. I will just go and give that my time and energy, someone that actually appreciates my time.
Don't waste your time, playing hard to get. Because if you meet a real guy, then it will backfire on you, and lose someone that could be very special you. If you think its player, then yes, playing him at his own game. you keep leading him on, making him think something is going to happen, but then you pull the plug on the player. Bang you have kick the player right in the balls. lol
Besides, men should respect women, haha. If she's not showing full and enthusastic interest, stop harassing her and move on. :D
a little tip for all the girls who like to play hard to get, you seem to think it will make things better that the more a guy has to chase the more he is going to like you, bad idea, that chase that you are creating will become the important thing, the guy will get addicted to the chase, once he has you, it will just seem boring and he will loose interest in you. you girls complain about guys being all nice and everything at the start but once things settle down they tend to lose interest, well now you know why and who is to blame, and remember once you girls get a guy hooked on the pleasure of the chase you are just passing the problem on to the next girl and the next
Is hard to get hot/cold. Mood swings. Flirting then hostile?
I agree. It's also disrespectful to the person playing hard to get. . As if you don't deserve a person who likes " you". Not you as prey.
this does not sound at all creepy