You're right man. Lately I've been trying to get stronger in my faith. But I'm always so anxious for ungodly things especially like this. I got a mentor recently and he's been an awesome help and he told me exactly what you told me. And it's no doubt I should follow your advice. But a part of me is also thinking, if I tell her I like her and she rejects me then I'm free and I can finally serve all my attention to god, know what I'm saying?
I think you should pray about it first since you're already approaching it from a fantastic perspective. If you don't feel like God has a problem with it then go for it. God doesn't have anything against relationships. Just sinful relationships. Of course you want ungodly things, you're human. WANTING sinful things isn't a sin. DOING sinful things is a sin. Keep following God and He will make your paths straight! :-)
Thanks man. Praise god!
It's funny I'm doing exactly what your guy is doing. So my girl thinks that I don't like her? Because I have been ignoring her and looking away and all that. Also I ask if she's losing interest because she doesn't seem to be glancing at me a lot as she used to. Maybe it's a small thing but I don't know.
Is this a girlfriend or a crush? Well if you're doing it like how the guy I liked did it then it can go as far as making her feel bad about herself because she'll be wondering what made you ignore her. If she liked you like I liked this guy it can result in her feeling hurt. I noticed my crush looking at me one time in public but turned away quickly. I didn't realize it was him until a couple second after. He stormed away instead of saying hi which really hurt my feelings. A couple days ago he saw my best friend and she said he talked to her like they were best friends which makes me wonder why he can't talk to me like that.I would say she may only be losing interest because the signs show her that you are not interested to she's not going to waste her time. Making the decision to move on from my crush wasn't easy.
Do you think it's too late for me to tell her I like her?
Oh and also she's just a crush
If you have the confidence to do it, I say go for it! You may just make her day.
One more thing. She almost isn't showing as much interest as she was before. Does this still make your answer valid?
Either way I still feel like you should give it a go
Sounds good. Thanks for the help
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