it's not that I fear rejection... she has a crush already so it makes it even harder
well, from experience, you can back off and let things take it course because she is not showing you attention, or you can go all in and take her by surprise, it's not good to keep in these feelings but it's not to take a dead chance either, what is her reaction around you? what do you notice?
she has a crush already...
Then out of respect for her you need to let that run its course. Patience is often rewarded.
Its true. I do respect her and that's why I haven't done any serious move but not always is patience rewarded. I've heard something when I was young, the one who hunts the girl wins her. something like that :P
Perhaps... but if you hunt her while she is already after her own big game... you may spoil your chance. If she is with her crush or trying to get her crush, you may just come off as desperate to her or potentially cause her confusion... putting her in a state does not win you points.Hunting her down is for your satisfaction only its what you want... giving her time to run her course means you respect her choices and that is what makes good bf material.
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