thank you! ok here's another question: what do I do if I ask her out or to hang out & she says no or she says yes but for some weird reason the date doesn't happen (she didn't show up, etc)? & I still have to see her in class... how should I treat her?
That's happened to you already? If so, yikes!! Honestly, groups are the best especially with even number of girls and guys because then she won't be in an awkward position if she's not ready to date you yet, plus you can still pay special attention to her without you being her ONLY focus, leaving room for mistakes. If you see her in class, just act as if nothing happened because then 1. It will show that you have other interests and your world won't stop spinning if she doesn't like you 2. It shows more confidence and then she won't feel like she's burned bridges for the future with you because people change their minds. You may like her now and she doesn't like you but if she sees what a great guy you are, then she may start to like you later on and won't feel awkward around you because you weren't awkward around her. Make sense?~Panda Graciosa
I see yes thank you! well now that I think of it I've had so many crazy experiences with girls... like for example I dated a girl that the first time I talked to was super rude & told me was a lesbian & then we ended up dating for 2 years & had a great relationship. another time I met a girl that was all over me after telling her I thought she was cute & we only dated for like a weekend. & I study constantly about women & there's so many different points of view that I just don't know what to think or do anymore. I feel super lost & lonely... I don't care about the rejection, I just want to know why so I can fix it & move on with my life.
how can you treat a woman in a way that she will KNOW you're interested?because the thing is I'm friendly with everyone
Tell her just that, you are interested in her!
by that you mean asking her out?
It could be in asking her out, it could be something as simple as giving her a compliment or just telling her that you like her.
ok thank you!
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exactly guys take it the wrong way !. that is y girls shouldn't be too nice and friendly!
i try to tell her that but she doesn't understand.
Well, I'm only responsible for what I say or do, not how they're going to take it.
again this is what i am saying too. i try to tell her that she doesn't understand.
what do you girls consider flirting?
Well, touching, but not to offensive.. Like casual arm here and there.. Looking into eyes (for few seconds.. Smiling-a lot!
I got a lot of these and she told me she doesn't like me.
Why the fuck did I find this funny ! 😂