I know this question comes up a lot and it's annoying, but I really want to understand the male perspective. I genuinely feel like guys aren't attracted to me period and I've been trying to figure out why. I don't think I'm conventionally attractive, I'm just average. However, all the average looking girls I know get hit on so many times it's crazy. The closest I get to being hit on is being stared at. I'm different from the average-looking girls in the sense that I have an afro. I'm not fat, I work out four times a week. I try to dress up every day. I'm quiet, but when someone starts a conversation with me, I am a good conversationalist. I feel like there's something wrong with me because I don't get hit on at all--no looks, no comments, nothing!! It's frustrating.