Wow that's along time to be waiting for him! From personal experience, when you like a guy for a long time, that could be really painful, even though it is happy thoughts that cross your mind most of the time. Sometime early in high school, you should try telling him how you feel maturely if he doesn't tell you anything. In high school, guys' availability can be unpredictable, so I would get it over with as soon as possible (I don't mean tell him right now, just don't wait forever). Just get out of the sister zone lol. You don't have to take this advice, I'm just saying this because I was in a similar situation and I'd like to help you out. :)
Your parents let a boy sleep over at your house? wow..
Thanks for MHO!
Still these things only take a split second to notice and still weeds out a lot of hassle. Wastes less time.
Yes... but sometimes a girl who goes to the coffee shop, etc., is not there to give off those signs. She maybe there for other reasons, until you shed your own light on the possibility.I find most girls... don't readily give you signs, they seem to be a little shy and reserved when it comes to a complete stranger. So you have to take the chance and make that opening.
You're not making any real point here. It seems like you're arguing for the sake of arguing. The signs i am asking about are whether they give them readily or not. Basically I'm looking for girls who are attracted to me on some level already instead of someone who isn't. Why go with through a whole song and dance for someone who only sees you platonically? I'm not looking for a platonic relationship. and reading up. Your original comment looks like it belongs to another question. The question isn't "should I care if she shoots me down?" The question is about "What signs girls give off if they are attracted to you." All I am saying is why waste time with someone who isn't MUTUALLY attracted to you in the first place? You have to consider the other person's world too.
Not arguing anything... and my point is... if you wait for a bunch of signs that don't come you may be missing out on a chance to meet someone great... that's where the "if she shoots me down... I don't care attitude" comes from.A few girls that I dated were not even looking at the time and gave no signs. Those platonic friendships turned into the best relationships. But that's just my experience which has nothing to do with your question... I guess.
No. They DO come I and notice them all the time. I notice a lot of these things. I'm asking the question because I want to know if I'm missing out on opportunities or not. The results speak for themselves.
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That would be wide open eyes staring? with a smile?
Kind of a challenging look but sweet, you know? Like "I can't wait for you to come over". I really think it's obvious. Always with a smile on my face :)
Wow I love your post. :)
what do you call the green light? Just curious.
Green light means, eyes meet and smile coyly ( maybe raise the eyebrows a bit or wink ).
Lol I am the exact same way! Hard to get guys this way
Tell me about it , I pursue so often I forget I'm a girl and when girls tell me you shouldn't be pursuing the guy should I feel like an idiot lol😒
Why do you feel like an host just bc other people are being idiotic?There is no reason women shouldn't peruse and the more they do the mire the circle if women who don't will dwindle and the less men will have the luxury of appointing themselves the agent of behavior / saying it's inappropriate.
You give out an email address?
Yes, ONLY EVER an email address.ie: I got sick of having to change my sim cards.
And by "I probably won't do much to hint that I like him," I mean that I very likely will fully ignore him unless he directly speaks to me.
The very least you could do is throw a longer-than-1-second glance at him. Some guys consider even that as an invitation.
Indeed and it complicates life for everyone.
Is a smile with eye contact to a stranger ALWAYS an invitation to approach for you or do you also have other purposes with it?
@drunkenlullaby if I happen to glance at anyone I smile at them so I guess it can be kinda confusing
Hmm yeah a bit, haha. I do the opposite, i forget to smile (back) most of the time.. derp. Cavemen stare is the result.
@drunkenlullaby you might wanna work on that lol
Why? Girls don't like cavemen? They are so manly.
aww and you're one year older than me?
I'm just surprised you're as old as me and still shy. I'm still shy but trying to overcome it.
oh. well, I've decided once it gets warm I'm going to start going out more and try to work up the courage to approach guys myself. so, I'm trying to.. planning to.
Good for you!
Because Lot of women don't want to be approached, and/or just give you a hard time. Knowing WHO is open to your approach wastes less time on you approaching someone who doesn't like you.
Indeed, many women only want to be approached by that one guy they know.
Dumbest advice ever.
Now I look back at this comment I still don't think it's dumb... In a place full of girls, you want to be the one who's picking your prey. Be the predator, not the prey. If you really want something go and get it until it's yours. I still don't understand the down votes.
Yeah they are like so quick, you almost don't notice them.
Yeah lol I think I get caught sometimes... :/
Ow hat the look?
How is he supposed to notice you like him if you look at his ass instead of his face?
... subtle signs...Don't be disappointed if I don't read them. If I understood or even saw them, I'd smile and say hello.The odds of simply not seeing them are about 90% in my case. I'd probably think you're looking at someone behind me.
Yes, Apparently asking a complete stranger to wake you up if you start to snore (during a movie) is a way of flirting (I found out about this one about two weeks ago).
@AlwaysBelieving what? i'd almost think u were joking if i didn't believe u