Nooooo no drugs, God forbid. Actually he's very anti - that stuff; he's an athlete so he has a high metabolism. Yes we do why?
Eating or the lack there of would correlate with cocaine/meth use. Well looks like you just have a weird ass dude on your hands. No magic no mystery.
No he's not weird I think he just doesn't know what to do with himself around me sometimes.
Lol but really - and see some of the other comments, he pretended our phones were having sex and I was like what are you doing and he made a joke out of it.
Lmao if he isn't getting any at least his phone is
Do you think he was trying to imply something with that?
Lol I don't know. Maybe he's just trolling you.
maybe - he does stuff like that but he also stares at me way too long sometimes and sings romantic/sexual lyrics when they come on the radio (and looks at me while he does it) and similar
Yep he's definitely trolling you
I think he just wants my attention - then again he also watches me with this kind of melancholy look on his face sometimes when I'm not looking, or in general watches me when I'm not looking and looks away really fast if I catch him.
I do that to girls who I think are attractive. Usually its me thinking of what to say then I'm like "nah thats stupid what are you thinking you don't have a chance" and I end up not approaching.
This guy is my good friend - I don't know he's been acting strangely, he didn't use to make sexual jokes and stuff.
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he has lots of nervous energy but it's specifically my stuff that he plays with, not others'.
Nervous energy is the reason he does it. He fact that you like each other is the reason he plays with your stuff in particular.
It's kind of funny, if I sit close to him his leg like starts vibrating.
What do you think he was doing?
He was playing with your stuff maybe just to joke with you or use it as a form of flirtation with you too ;)
Hmm - thanks!
Your welcome :)
This is awkward but at least twice I've caught him playing with his and my cell phones in a, uh, mimicking-sex manner, and he joked about a new phone when I was like...he also messes with my shoes which I would assume people would find gross... has put on my sweater... trying to think what else.
You might suggest he stop playing with your things and start playing with YOU if you wish...
he has played with my hands and stuff sort of but like - in a "it could be interpreted as a drawn-out high five" way
Wait really? Do you think that's why he occasionally picks up my purse and hands it to me when we leave somewhere, waits and closes my car door, etc?
See comment on Curmudgeon's opinion.
It's also partly a protective kind of thing. He associates your personal items with you (which is kind of "duh" I realize), but it's part of his fascination with you. With time he may begin to leave your stuff alone more.
Protective - can you explain? (This is fascinating)
If he's staged simulated sex between you guys' cell phones he would definitely want to bang you in the real world.
That's what I was figuring, I turned around and saw what he was doing and I am not even sure he was aware of it one of the times. Like he didn't seem conscious of what he was doing.
Protective in the sense that he wants to handle, fondle, and safeguard your stuff, which on some level he of course associates with you.
Oh ok - it's kind of funny, he even wore my college sweater that had my (very female) name on the back in huge letters when we were out in public.
Actually his brother literally joked that he was "marking his territory" when we saw him write "(name)'s roof" in the snow on my car. Also, he has a nickname for me and gets mad when anyone else uses it.
@Asker He definitely wants to bang you, but at the same time he likes you and doesn't just see you as a piece of ass.
What makes you think he likes me?
I think he likes you because of all the things you've mentioned in this post.
Ok - I mean he also always wants me to "see how soft his hair is" - and he's always saying things like "if you leave after graduation I'll be really sad blah blah" and "please don't leave."
Do you think he meant for me to see the cell phones? It's not like he instantly stopped or looked embarrassed or anything. In fact he joked about it one of the times - the other seemed unconscious.
I can't see why he would play cell phone sex if he didn't think you were watching. 'Cause that would just be really weird if he was playing with cell phones like that for his own jollies. Even with you watching it's still a little off-beat, but I can see the humor in it.
Yeah I was like... uh... but I did laugh. (he likes to make penis jokes too but I told him to stop being obnoxious)
Just curious what do you think he's thinking when he plays with my stuff?
I can't say for sure exactly what he's thinking. I just think there's something behind his behavior in doing this that has meaning for him when it comes to you.
Sorry, can you give me an example? (Haha i know it's a guess - I'm just wondering. For example if I'm playing with a guy's stuff I'm feeling happy that he allows me to do so.)
Nah, I'm afraid I've exhausted all my answers on this one. It was a fun thread though.
Lol ok - thanks for the help!
haha he's very nervous energy around me, he just has a high metabolism but he can be quite lazy - although his leg jumping up and down seems to coincide with my being near him.
Ya it's the nervous energy then, it's common
do you mean you think I make him nervous?
Maybe, are you really attractive? that makes quite a few guys nervous/intimated.
I guess? I don't know - people call me beautiful fairly often so maybe. Not sure about sexy though.
Why only my stuff not others' do you think? (well, not other girls' anyway)
Cause you're not around while he's with others?
No if we are with mutual female friends he rarely touches their stuff whereas he's all over mine.
Fuck I don't know. I don't know the fucking guy
Lol maybe and read the other comments on here - he's done some pretty borderline sexual stuff.