Tips on staying enthused or being enthused? am I just dumb?

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Things are best with my boyfriend when I'm super enthused or excited. Although I have troubles staying this way for some reason. Partly I think its because I usually get enthused when the other is enthused, and when he sense i'm not happy or unenthused or like im not having a good time (which most the time I am, i just am very bad at expressing it) then he will tone down and shy away. I also find also think part of the reason I dont show enthusiasm is because I'm not very smart, and most the time I have shown enthusiasm towards something or tried to do something it back fires and either i didn't know something completely and made an ass of myself or im just generally confused and dont want to make a fool oout of myself when I dont know 100% whats going on.

What can I do to help this?
Tips on staying enthused or being enthused? am I just dumb?
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