My boyfriend thinks I don't have fun... but I feel like he doesn't have fun... how do I fix this cycle?

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So.. My boyfriend thinks that I dont have fun. When we are at home, or on dates, he's always asking me if I'm having fun. Then on the other end I dont feel like he's having fun when we're together. We do have fun sometimes, but he often seems bored. its like when we are having fun and he seems happy its really good for then it slowly ends up to us asking again if we're having fun. When he's bored he usually gets very quiet, gets tired, and isn't as affectionate as usual. so sometimes I shy away because its hard to be excited and happy with someone who is somewhat unresponsive and seems like theyre having a bad time. But I wonder if maybe he doesn't show his excitment because he's unsure if I'm having fun? what can we do about this?
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we do go on dates, but he still seems bored and quiet
My boyfriend thinks I don't have fun... but I feel like he doesn't have fun... how do I fix this cycle?
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