How long should I wait to keep in touch with a guy I liked but I have met almost 3 weeks ago?

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I do not want to sound I am desesperate, stalker or pushy cause I dont want to scare him away and guys do not like women like that especially when they are grown up and know what they want. We just had exchanged text messages one day and that was like 5 days ago with a small conversation but after that so far nothing of communication between us. I mean I would love to text him everyday just to say Good morning or hello and then see what he has to say or share with me, anything, but I won't do that cause I dont want to stalk him and make him think Im crazy or something cause I am not. I want to take things slow with him to get to know him better or more than what I know of him already but not too slow either cause other chick may ran into him in the future who is bold and more proactive and because I waited too long I could miss my chance with the guy.

I mean I do not know him taht much to know if this guy likes being pursued and being conquered by a woman and he likes bold women, that is why I am aiming to take things slower for things to be more appropriate and get to know him step by step and not jump to him jsut like that, cause that could scare him if we do not know each other that much or I should be the one waiting for him to make a move, not necessarily a move but for him to text me and have a conversation.
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How long should I wait to keep in touch with a guy I liked but I have met almost 3 weeks ago?
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