Do guys tease girls they like?

Do guys tease girls they like? There's this guy at church who teases me, not always though, he does it in a funny way. Yet it's so irritating. Plz help


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  • Short answer: Yes.

    Longer answer: It might be because he likes you, and usually due to at least one of the following:

    They're awkward about it (given that you're under 18, I'm assuming he is, as well), and don't really know what to do about it. Not knowing what to do, or being afraid of just asking you out, he's chosen to annoy you instead. Presumably, this is in the hopes that he'll figure out what to do later, or become comfortable around you to the point that he can just tell you he's interested.

    They really haven't realized that they like you (boys can be very dense), and are just harassing you because they like being around you for some reason, and have decided that it's fun to pester you.

    If you give him a bit of time, he may come clean (one way or another), or you could go the direct route and just ask him if he likes you.


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  • Hell yeah when you don't have game that's the only thing you know how to do so far. Because if you can get someone excited or mad at you that shows you like them and care what they think which gives them attention from you, and their immaturity tells them to bother someone to get their attention. What I would do is call him out next time he does that. Say why you doing that? Is it because you like me? Ya know you could just say hey your cute or I like you it would be easier and less irritating. You will shock him but hell respond. And that should get him to stop acting foolish and communicate better. Sometimes you gotta be a little ballsy to people ya know? Good?

    • Ohh and be careful if you do it around people it might be too embarrassing to him and hurt him, but if you don't care then he deserves it.

  • Definitely, I was one of those guys for a while and it's either one of two things.

    First, he just likes teasing you for the fun of it (in my experience not likely) or,

    Second, he likes you but either lacks the confidence or is just too scared to tell you.


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