So I have been friends with this guy for almost two years and just this year we recently have became closer to each other in the last 4 or 5 months of school when we we're in driver's ed together. Now we talk and flirt all the time way more than we use to. And we also hang out together we cuddle and kiss each other. We had the relationship talk but he said with him going off to collage and being older then me that it might not work out and that he doesn't just want to have a random hook up and some stupid fling with me but relationship. He says he's falling for me and I'm falling for him but I don't get him because he doesn't want to have a relationship with me and I'm thinking about telling him that we can't doing things together if all we are going to be is friend with benefits because it's a waste of time I think. I really need some help because I'm confused because I know he doesn't just want to get in my pants s0o0o0o yeah help me out please!