When a girl says she doesn't want sex, but she tells you she will be in town staying in a hotel and suggested we meet, does she want sex?

Im having this issue now. We had previously talked really sexually/flirting. Then she told me she will be at a hotel and doesn't want sex but that we can meet. Why would she tell me she's guna be in a hotel and she wants to meet, only to say she doesn't want sex? Even though we had been sexting/flirting one another? Is this code for "She does want sex, but doesn't want to make herself look like a slut"? She even hinted that I could stay the night, but not all morning because she has an interview the next day


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What Girls Said 1

  • No, she said she doesn't want sex so that's pretty clear. Maybe she just wants to cuddle/kiss/talk/hang out/other sexual acts while you're there.

    Does she live out of town? Maybe that's why she's in a hotel.


What Guys Said 1

  • she doesn't want to seem easy so she can fall back on the excuse that "it just happened"

    • Thats what I was thinking, clearly im not about to stay the night and not have sex

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