Most Helpful Guy
Maybe be alone until you find what you are looking for. Seems to me that you know what type of man you want. If you want to be with a man, you might have to bring the bar down just a little. You could have the bar so high that you were only interested in 5 guys in your life.
If you do, just take time to get to know the guy to see if he is really a sweet guy who will listen to make your life better. Your no list might be he have 4 kids so you lose interest but, in this life people come with others lives from the past; not going to call it baggage. You just have to go by a person deeds.
Most Helpful Girl
No. Instead, try to explore and try to change or standards. I can't date overweight guys but this one guy i dated, i didn't know he was fat until i saw his old photos. I was a bit disappointed but he was a good guy and i liked him, so it didn't bother me now.