The second half of the semester began and he's started to hang out with this girl again. I asked him if he liked her and he said, "no way." After spending to consecitive days hanging out with her, he know likes her again and they've started the cycle over. They only hang out with each other and nobody else. And, I can ony think the same thing will happen - they'll fight, "break-up", and start over.
I know I can't really do anything about the situation, and I feel as though it'll just play out again and my friend will end up getting hurt like last time. What do you guys think? Is this "realtionship" he has with this girl healthy or not? Should I say something, or would that be over-stepping boundaries.
I just don't understand how you can go from liking someone, but never asking to be in a relationship, to wanting nothing to do with them, to liking them again.
Most Helpful Guy
It's extremely unhealthy. If being with this girl is hurting the rest of his social life, and life in general, there is a big problem. Just you saying something might not be a good idea, she'll come after you like crazy however if you got all of yalls friends together to have a bit of an intervention that could work wonders.0
Most Helpful Girl
It is his problem, not yours to cope with0