I made this account because at the moment I'm having a crush on a girl from my class. I met her this year in class we have talked a couple of times in real life and on facebook. However the times we chatted on facebook it was always me taking the initiave.
We have a long break now from Christmas till the first week of February. Last time I took the initiave to chat with her on facebook was a bit after the Christmas period, I ended with wishing her a merry Christmas, she took a while to respond (about two days, I would say that is because of the busy period, exams, festivities, etc). I actually took it as a sort of rejection, it seemed to me that I misinterpreted some sign of interest she showed in real life.
So I didn't message her, last we had contact she messaged me on facebook asking me for some info for an exam we had.
Now I still like this girl a lot, but I'm having a feeling she doesn't really like me as much as I hoped she would (maybe I need to give it more time, since we actually really haven't talked all that much).
Now I want to send her something on facebook, - there is this exam we just had from a class we both struggled with -, just to show her that I still think about her. But I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't do this, after all if she isn't really interested I'll probably be bothering her in the middle of this busy period.
So should I still try something with her or just leave her alone (by which I mean initiating things on facebook, I'm not going to ignore her or be an asshole to her because of some assumptions I have)?
Should I leave this girl alone?
What Girls Said 2
If I were you I would ask her how she feels towards you and go from there's.👫👫👫👫0
What Guys Said 1
Just directly approach her and ask her to hang out with you or if you feel bold enough, ask her out on a date. Because if you don't try, you will never know.1
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