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Guys, I'm a 36DD but I have a small butt. Does that make me unattractive?

It seems like in this day and age, there's nothing worse than a girl with a flat butt. Well, I happen to be one of those girls. Over the past few years, I've really started to hate my body. I have a pretty face, and my boobs are a 36DD and naturally very perky, but it seems like none of that matters, because I have a "pancake ass" nobody will ever think I'm sexy. One guy I was hooking up with a few months back even said to me "Honestly, from the chest up you're close to a 10. But the bottom half of you is a 2 at best."
I'm not a "thin" girl by any means, but I'm not overweight either. My base line weight has usually been somewhere between 128 and 132. However, I've gained about 10 lbs over the past year because I was diagnosed with a medical problem and the medicine I'm having to take for it causes weight gain. But pretty much all of that extra weight has gone to my belly, none of it went to my butt. I don't know why but my body just doesn't store fat there. That makes me feel even worse about myself, although I'm going to the gym 2-3 times a week and trying to eat healthy so that I can drop the weight. I actually do squats, but that just makes my butt firmer, not bigger.
Almost every guy I've dated or talked to has told me it's a huge turn off. One guy even straight up told me that while we were hooking up he went soft because my butt looked like Hank Hill in a thong. The only guy whos claimed to have liked my butt is my ex who I was in a serious long-term relationship with for over 2 years, but I'm almost positive he was just saying that to make me feel better about myself. He's said my butt size doesn't matter because I have naturally "perfect" boobs. I used to believe that, but now I don't anymore. It seems like no one finds me attractive because of my butt.
Guys on here, be honest? Should I feel as unattractive as i do? Are small butts really that bad? And if so, do big, perky boobs cancel that out? Or is that just the worst body type out there?
Guys, I'm a 36DD but I have a small butt. Does that make me unattractive?
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