I've always grown up with people telling me to let guys come up to me first and not go chasing after them, however more recently I'm wondering, do guys like it if girls make the first move? Like does it show confidence or something?
Most Helpful Guy
I can't stand this fact in women. Yes, it would be awesome if the woman made the first move. I would love for a woman to come after me the way I am expected to go after a woman. I even took a year off of dating and agreed that if a woman came after me, and I was interested (on the online dating sites) I would explore it. Exactly 2 women in 1 year 1 month sent me a message. Uggg.. that is just sickening. Yet if I send out messages first I get plenty of replies.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't have a problem making the first move but I find that u never get anything serious from doing so. Either the guy doesn't like u that much so he only dates you because he thinks he might get some action out of it. I don't know if being confident enough to ask men out makes us seem easy or something, not enough data to make that link. But I can tell u I've had more luck with men actually liking me when they are the ones to ask me.1
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