There’s a guy at work I have a crush on that likes me too. Thing is he has a girlfriend. A couple months back I had a talk with him about flirting with me (which he used to do now and then) and both agreed it shouldn’t happen under said circumstances. Despite him behaving I still can’t shake this crush. So I decided recently I should distance myself a little. Don’t stop at his desk much to talk etc, as much as I can do when I work in the same office. It seems to be doing okay but I feel bad he may think I’m ignoring him if I carry on too heavily. But do you think I’m doing the right thing so we can both get over our feelings for each other?