Why are men so afraid of rejection? (Page 2)

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I mean seriously, you'd rather ask a kinda ugly girl out instead of a pretty and super cool one, because you're afraid of rejection? Sometimes you have to get over yourselves and stop thinking that girls are 'out of your league'. It's such a guy thing, I've never thought that in my life about guy.

iamAM · Answer

I'm not at all like that - for you see, I am out of their league.. Simple. I don't really think it's fear of rejecting, but more the fear of "she's hot, then she must have a boyfriend.. a boyfriend that will beat the sh*t out of me, if I flirt with his girl".

misterbill71 · Answer

because getting rejected hurts... even the toughest guy doesn't like getting shot down. as far as asking out "ugly" girls... I would never ask a girl out if I wasn't at least attracted to her in some way.

larry69 · Answer

Try getting turned down by 100% of every woman you have ever asked out for all 41 years of my life...I doesn't get easier...it only gets harder and more hurtful with each rejection.

All women that I am attracted to are out of my league!

britishbulldog · Answer

If you're so bothered and unafraid of rejection maybe you should get over yourself and go start chatting to guys instead.

beans · Answer

Girls are also afraid of rejection, even more so than guys...

rocksongwriter · Answer

Why the question?  Do you feel that are a 'pretty and super cool' girl that is being passed up for less pretty and less cool girls?

BlackSuperman · Answer

it's human nature... PEOPLE are afraid of loss, rejection... that's why so many of em take the path of least resistance... and they are never happy...

techione · Answer

Men live their lives with the illusion that they have total control. Rejection reveals the truth.

human_condition · Answer

What's wrong with ugly people? Can they not also be 'super cool'?

Kshppatel · Answer

It takes a toll on your self esteem and confidence. At a certain point your self esteem and confidence is so low that you are like "fuck it " I'm at the bottom now anyway so who cares if I get rejected one more time.

Cyhhgg · Answer

Hmmmmmm maybe I'm slow on the uptake, but I'm pretty sure this isn't exclusive to guys. It's more like a human thing.  But you know, fuck me, right? I'm all logical and all.

jacar288yahoocom · Answer

Easy for you because you don't have to ask guys but we have to ask girls and get reject you have no idea how much it hurt when you really like but they did not like you back. I give up on girls

Broken719 · Answer

beacuse when you are rejected its like falling off a cliff and you have to work your way all the way back up again and sometimes its just not worth it

Anonymous · Answer

That's like saying your not afraid of zombies, and when you do see the zombie you scream your head off, but the thing is, guys have been dealing with the zombies there entire life. And the zombie is rejection

IN5AN1TY · Answer

Why are girls so afraid to ask out guys? I think you will find its the same reasons as digital haze gave. So Think about it...

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

women dont even have hafl of the balls a man has. stfu unless you know it

ChaosDemigod03 · Answer

Men are insecure. That's why we need a constant ego boost, and regular confirmation we are doing good. We take risks with our body and our lives, not our fragile egos.

lilced12 · Answer

when you get turned down its kinda like your rep going down cause first we think its going to go around and then your home oys going to be like oh bra you got dissed and stuff like that

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know.  I'm just glad I've stopped dating.  I'm much happier now!

Anonymous · Answer

what a ridiculous and false statement

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