Consider 2 dudes. One is of average looks, the other looks like Ryan Gosling. They do and say the same thing to try something with you but Ryan is a swell guy and the other is a creep. by the way... This (once again) comes back to the asymmetry between women and men. We put ourselves to task and we put ourselves in danger of rejection and being called names (creep) while women can sit on their hands and have opportunities coming their way all the time. And not satisfied with this much easier life, they'll call men creeps. There's something wrong with you and either you don't realize it or you hide it.
If you think Ryan Gosling can't be creepy, go watch the movie Lars And The Real Girl where he plays a mentally handicapped young man who falls in love with a blowup doll, then come back and tell me that shit ain't creepy
Yeah, but Ryan Gosling has to do all that to look creepy. Meanwhile >be me >approach girl >get into 3 meter range >breathe in >"Leave me alone, creep!"
Some girls just throw the term creep around, I have been called a creep by girls in all sorts of situations including yes when I tried asking a girl out I liked. I have also been called a creep at the gym for looking over in the general direction a girl was in for a few seconds because she thought I was staring at her and I have even been called a creep when a girl caught me just trying to check her out for a few seconds
Little missy, all most everyone looks at everyone at a gym, that's just how humans are no matter gender, there I live the girls are the one's that checkout makes themselves try to get attention and try to hit on men, very common and most common, especially in the definition way you have for being creepy.
Some people try to enlight the other one to hide what they was doing, sometimes even lie that the other one did do something. (Very common amongst females that needs to grow as a person, very sensitive subject for those are)
Well that's unfortunate. Maybe you just give off a scary vibe or have one of those faces that looks angry all the time and people are scared of you
No not everyone looks at people in the gym. I put the television on and watch House Hunters for an hour. I don't look at or make eye contact with anybody else but my friend, even the people who work there
I check in, but only go with my friend who has a "bring a guest" membership, so they mainly check in. But I don't look at them while they're cleaning and walking across the gym. I go to the gym to work out, not talk to or meet people. And I don't appreciate people staring at me when I'm beet red and can't breathe from working out. I only do yoga at home because I don't like creeps watching me do it at the gym
Have someone done what you claim others gonna do especially when you do yoga or even when you exercise? Do you even know why they look when you do yoga or other exercises?
(females that are full of themselves assume a lot of things of others that's not even close why they do what they do, those females also tends to accuse people of being creepy/creeps)
When I asked if you say hello to the gym staff or other regular members I didn’t mean a 10 minute socialising chat as yes people are there to workout first or foremost. I meant a hello as you pass the staff member on at reception or a quick hello or nod of the head or some other greeting to other regular members you see all the time as you walk past them. The longest a chat lasts for me in the gym with is like a minute while I rest between sets and it will usually just be something like “hey man what are you training today” then they answer and ask you back usually and that’s all it is. Also I find by just acknowledging people like this as a common courtesy if they are using a piece of equipment you want to use they will let you easily work in with them with no hassles etc all because you just hello to them.
Well if you're going that far, then no I do not exchange those kinds of greetings with people. In general I ignore people in public
And I know when somebody is looking at me when there's only two people in the gym and the other person is looking at me. It's not being full of oneself to not like people looking at you. It's actually quite rude for you to accuse people of such things
It seems you twist what people say and do sometimes (that's rude for many humans). Than, nobody decides where someone are allowed to look at and how they look at it, (if you think you have the right to decide that you have attitude problems and problems to be in a society in that case it's better to isolate yourself in some forest or desert island).
You did indirectly say now that you look at other people when you claimed you don't look at other in the beginning, to see what others do you must look at them to see.
Also you didn't answer "Have someone done what you claim others gonna do especially when you do yoga or even when you exercise?"
@crazy8000 The only twisting is on your part and you're wrong. There are societal expectations for staring at people in public, and people who violate those deserve to be called creeps. It is common decency to avoid eye contact and leave 6 inches to a foot of person space in elevators and on public transportation
If I catch someone looking at me, I'm going to watch out for them. If nobody is looking at me, then we equally ignore each other and everything is great. I look around to watch out for creeps and be wary of my surroundings
I didn't answer that question because your grammar is atrocious. Learn how to ask questions properly before demanding people answer them
There we have even more that get reviled about why you have problems with others!
If you want that space in a elevator you shouldn't take a elevator since it is a small space transaction that often get crowded in a way you can't get that much private space in the first place.
I see you on purpose assume the worst of the opposite gender and that makes yourself a prisoner of your own mind. (you are looking for others to be creeps). In a gym people look at others, personal like some others no matter gender observe when someone do something we haven't done ourselves or seen before how they are doing it what muscles it targets and makes a assessment if it is something to add in our own workout program.
Eye to eye contact is the most common communication forms between humans for thousands of years if you have any knowledge of human communication, also between 20-40% off it in difference of only words that is about 3-20%. If you have problems with looking in to other's eyes you most likely have autistic treats in you. if you have or not you can't aspect others to bend to your point of view how things should be. and no you don't have any unwritten decency codes about eye contact that you shouldn't in most cultures on this planet, do some research before assuming.
Have you ever reevaluated your mindframe and perception bios? If I were you I would do it asap to get a more harmonic and stress free life without anxiety 😉
Which one? I couldn't get the license plate of the guy who tried to follow me home and I didn't know the guys were trying to kidnap me until my friend told me later... just thought they were being regular creeps. And I always tell the cop at Walmart not to let creepy guys follow me out if they act like they're going to
I probably could've told the people at the gas station to look on their cameras for the guys, but I was working so many hours at the time I didn't think to. I don't remember what day it was, so they probably couldn't look it up anymore. I just remember he had grey hair, was overweight, had a beard, and a purple truck--but that description matches a lot of guys in this area
She couldn't remember the date because she was tanked. I don't know how much she was drinking, but she was sauced. She was seeing a bunch of people groping her and shit. Then they tried to kidnap her, then she's seen wandering around the inside of a store for over an hour... I mean she was effin blasted
Let's be honest here. I check my ex's social media when we are still in a relationship. I didn't know that he left me and he ghosted me. I always check his social media like what's going on? Does it count?
your girlfriend is stalking you because she wants to know what and who you like on fb. Lol. Well if she's your girlfriend its normal to check your facebook but if it's a random stranger who always stalk you on fb it's creepy
In short, a creep is someone who doesn't understand boundaries or chooses to ignore them, often in a threatening way.
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To me any random guy that i dont know coming up to me and asking me out is creepy like dude i dont know u you could be great or u could be a serial killer for all i know
You're justified in feeling uncomfortable when approached by strangers. Not everyone has to be open to spontaneous social interaction with people they don't know
I don't respond to every spontaneous social interaction. Who does? That doesn't make me think those who try to interact with me are creepy. If you feel uncomfortable maybe due to previous experience, what you've heard or your social skills, then that's on you and not the person
I had a stalker in the past that would stalk me on social media and in real life, but I moved so that went away. Being a creep is unwanted behavior or aggressive or just like negative general.
Unless you are a city girl/acute mouthbreather in a small county town in the woods, and the guy is an eternally young, immortal, sparking vampire. Then it is called LOVE.
@Benedek38 Well he may have left some fang marks, but didn't sparkle and he didn't get the fun he wanted. And once again, he was attractive, but I still turned him down
Hid body language did match his behavior, but he was still a creep. And yeah body language is a big part of it
Well, yeah, if a guy is running towards you with a machete, and is telling you that he will cut you to a thousand pieces, that's consistent behaviour, but you probably shouldn't swoon over him.
A creep is someone who disregards you directly telling them you're not interested and to leave you alone (and ignoring them) and still makes advances or stalks you.
I have not been called a creep, but when I was young more than one girl said “fuck off, you freak”, after I approacher her in a nightclub. Australian girls are like that. 🤣
I think a creep is someone who provoke some "fear" for his behaviour or appearance, like seen to be a "perturbed" person that can try to harm you, abuse you or something.
Creep is someone who you are not attracted to but does actions which would be fine if you were attracted to him :D for exmple a hot guy staring at you is nice but if you are not interested in him then he is a creep
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Consider 2 dudes. One is of average looks, the other looks like Ryan Gosling.
They do and say the same thing to try something with you but Ryan is a swell guy and the other is a creep.
by the way... This (once again) comes back to the asymmetry between women and men. We put ourselves to task and we put ourselves in danger of rejection and being called names (creep) while women can sit on their hands and have opportunities coming their way all the time. And not satisfied with this much easier life, they'll call men creeps. There's something wrong with you and either you don't realize it or you hide it.
If you think Ryan Gosling can't be creepy, go watch the movie Lars And The Real Girl where he plays a mentally handicapped young man who falls in love with a blowup doll, then come back and tell me that shit ain't creepy
Yeah, but Ryan Gosling has to do all that to look creepy. Meanwhile
>be me
>approach girl
>get into 3 meter range
>breathe in
>"Leave me alone, creep!"
Sorry, I'm just fucking with you at this point, I made my case.
Reality check:
www.boredpanda.com/.../
Some girls just throw the term creep around, I have been called a creep by girls in all sorts of situations including yes when I tried asking a girl out I liked. I have also been called a creep at the gym for looking over in the general direction a girl was in for a few seconds because she thought I was staring at her and I have even been called a creep when a girl caught me just trying to check her out for a few seconds
Well I do consider it creepy to watch people in the gym, especially since I go pretty late at night
Maybe you have a bad delivery
Little missy, all most everyone looks at everyone at a gym, that's just how humans are no matter gender, there I live the girls are the one's that checkout makes themselves try to get attention and try to hit on men, very common and most common, especially in the definition way you have for being creepy.
The thing was I wasn’t watching that person in the gym
Some people try to enlight the other one to hide what they was doing, sometimes even lie that the other one did do something.
(Very common amongst females that needs to grow as a person, very sensitive subject for those are)
Well that's unfortunate. Maybe you just give off a scary vibe or have one of those faces that looks angry all the time and people are scared of you
No not everyone looks at people in the gym. I put the television on and watch House Hunters for an hour. I don't look at or make eye contact with anybody else but my friend, even the people who work there
You don’t even say hello to the other gym regulars and the gym staff?
I check in, but only go with my friend who has a "bring a guest" membership, so they mainly check in. But I don't look at them while they're cleaning and walking across the gym. I go to the gym to work out, not talk to or meet people. And I don't appreciate people staring at me when I'm beet red and can't breathe from working out. I only do yoga at home because I don't like creeps watching me do it at the gym
Have someone done what you claim others gonna do especially when you do yoga or even when you exercise?
Do you even know why they look when you do yoga or other exercises?
(females that are full of themselves assume a lot of things of others that's not even close why they do what they do, those females also tends to accuse people of being creepy/creeps)
When I asked if you say hello to the gym staff or other regular members I didn’t mean a 10 minute socialising chat as yes people are there to workout first or foremost. I meant a hello as you pass the staff member on at reception or a quick hello or nod of the head or some other greeting to other regular members you see all the time as you walk past them. The longest a chat lasts for me in the gym with is like a minute while I rest between sets and it will usually just be something like “hey man what are you training today” then they answer and ask you back usually and that’s all it is. Also I find by just acknowledging people like this as a common courtesy if they are using a piece of equipment you want to use they will let you easily work in with them with no hassles etc all because you just hello to them.
Well if you're going that far, then no I do not exchange those kinds of greetings with people. In general I ignore people in public
And I know when somebody is looking at me when there's only two people in the gym and the other person is looking at me. It's not being full of oneself to not like people looking at you. It's actually quite rude for you to accuse people of such things
There we have it!
It seems you twist what people say and do sometimes (that's rude for many humans).
Than, nobody decides where someone are allowed to look at and how they look at it, (if you think you have the right to decide that you have attitude problems and problems to be in a society in that case it's better to isolate yourself in some forest or desert island).
You did indirectly say now that you look at other people when you claimed you don't look at other in the beginning, to see what others do you must look at them to see.
Also you didn't answer "Have someone done what you claim others gonna do especially when you do yoga or even when you exercise?"
@crazy8000
The only twisting is on your part and you're wrong. There are societal expectations for staring at people in public, and people who violate those deserve to be called creeps. It is common decency to avoid eye contact and leave 6 inches to a foot of person space in elevators and on public transportation
If I catch someone looking at me, I'm going to watch out for them. If nobody is looking at me, then we equally ignore each other and everything is great. I look around to watch out for creeps and be wary of my surroundings
I didn't answer that question because your grammar is atrocious. Learn how to ask questions properly before demanding people answer them
There we have even more that get reviled about why you have problems with others!
If you want that space in a elevator you shouldn't take a elevator since it is a small space transaction that often get crowded in a way you can't get that much private space in the first place.
I see you on purpose assume the worst of the opposite gender and that makes yourself a prisoner of your own mind. (you are looking for others to be creeps).
In a gym people look at others, personal like some others no matter gender observe when someone do something we haven't done ourselves or seen before how they are doing it what muscles it targets and makes a assessment if it is something to add in our own workout program.
Eye to eye contact is the most common communication forms between humans for thousands of years if you have any knowledge of human communication, also between 20-40% off it in difference of only words that is about 3-20%.
If you have problems with looking in to other's eyes you most likely have autistic treats in you. if you have or not you can't aspect others to bend to your point of view how things should be. and no you don't have any unwritten decency codes about eye contact that you shouldn't in most cultures on this planet, do some research before assuming.
Have you ever reevaluated your mindframe and perception bios?
If I were you I would do it asap to get a more harmonic and stress free life without anxiety 😉
Oh, my gosh. Are you okay?
I would’ve died right then and there if that happened to me.
Did you report them?
Which one? I couldn't get the license plate of the guy who tried to follow me home and I didn't know the guys were trying to kidnap me until my friend told me later... just thought they were being regular creeps. And I always tell the cop at Walmart not to let creepy guys follow me out if they act like they're going to
Both. Could you describe them to the police?
Or, did your friend see the plate?
I probably could've told the people at the gas station to look on their cameras for the guys, but I was working so many hours at the time I didn't think to. I don't remember what day it was, so they probably couldn't look it up anymore. I just remember he had grey hair, was overweight, had a beard, and a purple truck--but that description matches a lot of guys in this area
Can I ask how you don't remember the date? Is that due to some sort of disability? If so, I understand.
She couldn't remember the date because she was tanked. I don't know how much she was drinking, but she was sauced. She was seeing a bunch of people groping her and shit. Then they tried to kidnap her, then she's seen wandering around the inside of a store for over an hour... I mean she was effin blasted
he would have a disabled plate most likely
An old guy confessing love to me ( I was 17 that time he was 38)
A stalker from my facebook
A pervert
A guy who constantly send nude photos of him *😷
When he was 38) *
38 gosh why is that emoji always appearing lol.
Seems like you can't stop blushing ;)
Nooooo
And thanks for downvoting me lol😂
No I didn't downvote you. I'm not that petty. Someone that could be your dad shouldn't want to date you :) Unless he didn't know your age
Of course he know my real age.
😱😱
An upvote if you've never stalked an ex or someone you have a crush on on Facebook :)
LOL I'm lost
I seen many girls who stalk their ex on social media. Since that's being a creep, just checking if you're a creep as well?
LOL how did you know that many girls are stalking their ex on social media?
Let's be honest here. I check my ex's social media when we are still in a relationship. I didn't know that he left me and he ghosted me. I always check his social media like what's going on? Does it count?
Oh I've been told that my many girls that's how I know. When I was on Facebook, my girlfriend then would note every pic I liked. That's stalking :)
Checking to know what's going on is not stalking. To keep checking after you've known could be
your girlfriend is stalking you because she wants to know what and who you like on fb. Lol. Well if she's your girlfriend its normal to check your facebook but if it's a random stranger who always stalk you on fb it's creepy
In short, a creep is someone who doesn't understand boundaries or chooses to ignore them, often in a threatening way.
To me any random guy that i dont know coming up to me and asking me out is creepy like dude i dont know u you could be great or u could be a serial killer for all i know
So if I were to say “hi, I’m AB, I find you attractive and I’d like to get to know you” is being seen as a creep?
And women wonder why men a reluctant to ask girls out nowadays.
They only want those they fancy to ask them out
@halfbowsey apparently.
You're justified in feeling uncomfortable when approached by strangers. Not everyone has to be open to spontaneous social interaction with people they don't know
I don't respond to every spontaneous social interaction. Who does? That doesn't make me think those who try to interact with me are creepy. If you feel uncomfortable maybe due to previous experience, what you've heard or your social skills, then that's on you and not the person
if you don't understand body language or social cues you're a creep
I had a stalker in the past that would stalk me on social media and in real life, but I moved so that went away. Being a creep is unwanted behavior or aggressive or just like negative general.
I'm glad you were able to free yourself from your stalker. That must've been horrible
Okactually didn’t realize it until moth s later then I figured out then I moved to another state
I call a creep a guy or girl that looks at you in an uncomfortable way and has a bad loon in their eyes and has a very rude expretion
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@Benedek38
Yeah that's a bit creepy
@Idonthaveausername
Well, if you think THAT is creedy, wait till the guy shows you his favourite set of Halloween costume. It cost him an arm and a leg!
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Someone whose body language doesn't match their behaviour
For example, if you stare at a girl for 20 minutes but don't go up and introduce yourself, that's creepy.
Unless you are a city girl/acute mouthbreather in a small county town in the woods, and the guy is an eternally young, immortal, sparking vampire. Then it is called LOVE.
Very true. Sparkling vampires have all the fun
@Benedek38 Well he may have left some fang marks, but didn't sparkle and he didn't get the fun he wanted. And once again, he was attractive, but I still turned him down
Hid body language did match his behavior, but he was still a creep. And yeah body language is a big part of it
Well, yeah, if a guy is running towards you with a machete, and is telling you that he will cut you to a thousand pieces, that's consistent behaviour, but you probably shouldn't swoon over him.
Except if he looks like this. In this case, he's probably a nice dude.
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Source: Dude, trust me.
I dont understand the need to call every guy your aren't attracted to a creep. I only call actual creeps, creeps
A guy acting too confident towards me while I give him zero sign of interest, making me uncomfortable, is a creep
Sex predators and those who like to send pix of themselves and ask you for even more in return.
A creep is someone who disregards you directly telling them you're not interested and to leave you alone (and ignoring them) and still makes advances or stalks you.
I have not been called a creep, but when I was young more than one girl said “fuck off, you freak”, after I approacher her in a nightclub.
Australian girls are like that. 🤣
Probably because the person just wants to have a good time without being hit on by some stranger.
I detestable person.. A person who probably has some sort of crazy inside them lurkin into people's lives..
Anything ranging from jerk to someone who is a creepy stalker = creep.
I think a creep is someone who provoke some "fear" for his behaviour or appearance, like seen to be a "perturbed" person that can try to harm you, abuse you or something.
It can be a jerk , pervept, someone who is doing something or said something...
Creep is someone who you are not attracted to but does actions which would be fine if you were attracted to him :D for exmple a hot guy staring at you is nice but if you are not interested in him then he is a creep
Basically this. I don't even need to answer now.
And yet I called a very attractive guy a creep for trying to lure me into his car with vodka... so completely innacurrate
Attractive is not the same as being attracted to. If it was someone you had crush on, wouldn't you go inside for the adventute and possibility?
No. That is not an adventure I wanted to be a part of
A person who makes others feel uncomfortable. Someone you wouldn't ride alone in an elevator with.