I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months and every time where together she has to make me work just for a little kiss and work even harder for more. Sometimes I think she's not all that interested in being compassionate with me. We do have a long distance relationship since she goes to college in a different state and we only get to see each other every 3 or 4 months for a week or two at a time. We've been friends for almost 8 years though so I know her well. I just don't understand why she doesn't want to make the most of our time together.