Most Helpful Girl
Step 1) don't show that you are nervous
Step 2) give off a non threatening vibe unless you are THAT confident
Step 3) ask her how she is enjoying her night. Her response will greatly tell you what kind of luck you may have and if you should pursue another
Step 4) don't get caught up on one girl. If she wants you, she will be around you (in your visual sphere) and be smiling when she looks at you.
Step 5) get a phone number or social media, dont try to get too physical. Wait until the next nightfall (for hookup) unless you want to date her, then text her before 2pm so she knows you want to know her personality.
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Most Helpful Guys
I just talk to a woman like I talk to anyone (see her like anyone) but if she responds positively I talk to her like I knew her all my life. I look their way if they are next to me and give them an in or look at her unique drink she has and/or ask the bartender that is serving her what kind of a drink that is and that usually gets a three way conversation going to start things. The bartender can be key here, if you get a fun one start talking any crazy sht with him/her. The bartender has to talk to you at least to take your order so start some bs right there. Talk details of some bu$hit drink, anything. Use the bartender for comedy relief if possible. It will suck her into the interchange. If it doesn’t work the first night, tip the sht out of him/her then the next night they will bs with you. Don’t waste your time at clubs they are just for attention, go to bars or pubs. Don't get creep-ed out but, try to pretend she is your sister if you can't control your nerves. You have to not give a shit to get your brain straight. Just accept everything will be f-ed up, up front and then you have nothing to lose.
Just break the ice by greetig her and asking her if you can buy her a drink. You can't plan in Advance what to saym and if you do, you'll probably get thrown off stride and caught by surprise if the convo doesn't go as you assumed, so just talk About whatever Comes to mind at the Moment.