move on she comes back and gets him dumb again 🙅♀️I just hate seeing how she plays both of the guys is there anything I could do to help him?
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Advice for your friend: if he really wants to get over her he should unfollow her on any platform and make all means to get info on her disappear.
Advice for you: assuming you want to reciprocate the interest he shows on you, be flirtatious with him, give him clear signals that you're interested in him, plan dates, make easy opens for him to make the move or make some moves of your own. The best way to get over an ex is to get into a good, passionate, non-toxic new relationship (assuming no one is being used and both love each other).1
Sounds like he is in love with her. Love makes people act irrationally, so any rational advice likely won't help. The easiest way for him to get over her would be to block her on everything and delete her number. She probably likes the feeling of being able to string him along because, unfortunately, it's a common human behavior. Everyone likes to be adored, some people to bad things to get it even if it is hurting someone else.
I would NOT recommend trying to be in a relationship with him. It is obvious that he loves her. Even if he did start to date you, you'd be tossed to the side if his "true love" ever wanted him back. I would only recommend trying to date him if it is clear that he got over his ex.2
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I hope you don’t like him to much. DON’T start a romantic relationship. You will lose!!! Sorry, but you are playing with fire because if you don’t compare to her now. You never will. Does not mean that she is better than you in any way. Just means that his perception is that she is and since you want to be with this guy. Well, that does matter. So, take from me. Someone who lost as well to the memory of an ex being prettier/ more love... etc. Don’t devastate yourself like I am. My ex spent two years with me before telling me that I can’t compare to her... so, it’s different with me. But, that’s your future if you stay around this guy!2