What do you talk about during the talking stage? and how often do you talk?
What Girls Said 1
For me, talking is the most important part. I am an emotional person and get down quite often due to family things. More often than not, when I’m interested in a person, I talk to them a lot. I ask all sorts of normal questions like interests etc. Depending on if I have suspicions on them reciprocating feelings, I will talk to them almost every day. (In this stage, I’m just getting to be good friends with them, so I know I actually like them.) After a while, I can start to see how exactly they feel when it comes to talking. I know some people aren’t very good at it, and struggle at times. My past interests ended because they either A. Couldn’t open up to me due to personal issues, or B. Never faced any life struggles so I couldn’t relate to them. I’m talking to someone right now, and he seems to like me, and I think he is a great person to talk to. After I know there’s a chance that we could make it work, I ask deeper questions. Mostly thoughtful stuff that requires reflection like. (Do you consider yourself a good influence? Do you ever think about your standards?)
I think the best thing you can do, if you truly are interested, is to ask a thought out question every once in a while. No “yes or no” questions. Such as “Do you have any good friends? What do you talk about?” This questioning would make her think you are interested in her. Also, I think there’s nothing more attractive than good mental thinking and social skills. It probably seems like a lot, it just takes practice. Try having a deep convo with a friend, or watch YouTube videos on how to analyze what people say, gets you thinking.😂
Hope this helps!0
What Guys Said 1
This is the part I always fail at. I go completely stoic and then get dumped on my ass. My poor advice would be say anything.0
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