Would you prefer someone to be obvious about who he/she likes, or should he/she be secretive about it?

  • Definetly open about it so I can figure out if the feeling are mutual
    Vote A
  • More secretive and unclear because I won't know what to do if I don't like that person back
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Open.

    I've never asked anyone out or dated, but if I liked someone who I thought liked me back and I asked them out, due to that and they said no, I'd imagine it'd be very awkward.


Most Helpful Girl

  • I would love for them to be open about it, because then I would not waste my time. When I first started to date my husband, I straight up asked him if he was single and if he was interested. When we had our first date, I straight of was very forward and asked him if he liked me and the following week we still went out so I asked him if he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He said yes.


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What Guys Said 4

  • It's generally better for you when the person who is interested in you puts their cards on the table.

  • Never could figure out why people had all these secrets going on and wasting all that time which could have been better spent actually doing something about it! ;- )

  • I don't do polls...
    Secretive? What would be the point in that?

  • Open about it.


What Girls Said 0

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