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Why do some guys from my group try to flirt with me?

I believe it is only friendly flirting from their part, but still.

I hang with a mixed group of people for 4 years now. With one guy I became friends. He's telling me lately that from the first time he talked to me he wanted to become my friend. We're both married and we know eachothers spouses. He flirts a lot (joking, teasing, eyes locking, bantering...). I don't mind it since I see him as friend and don't feel threatened by him. But I do mind some others try to do the same thing. Why do they think they are allowed to do all he does? I'm not friends with others, just acquaintances and not intend to become more than that (and clearly showing them that by not interacting more then I have to with them), so it makes me feel uncomfortable when they try to flirt in any way, no matter how innocent or insignificant.
Why do some guys from my group try to flirt with me?
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