I'd actually like it! I don't know what the deal is with people who get turned off from someone liking them! However, if I AM busy or in a hurry, I may not have time to chat! So depending I think also if I (or the person in question) is pressed for time or not, they may or may not be more open to chatting or getting to know someone! Plus, since it's a very random thing, like I said they may not have time to get to know you and things can get awkward! They may come of as arrogant, unfriendly or snobby even though it's just that they are in a hurry! Also, they could be married, have a significant other, not interested, or don't have time. It's really a hit or miss these things and it IS a risk to the emotions/ego if you get rejcted BUT that's life!
I once had a stranger offer to pay for my food at a coffee shop - he was very intelligent and rich but I felt uncomfortable and ordered the cheapest thing I could find instead of what I wanted. I don't like it when somebody I don't trust is interested in me.
I am always caught off guard and don't know what to say or do on the rare occasion I get hit on. It almost freaks me out a little because it's so rare, and I'm not used to it.
I also have a hard time telling the difference between friendliness and flirtation unless you're really forward about it. There have been many times where friends have told me after the fact that a guy was flirting with me and I didn't pick up on it at all.
I feel like it depends on the approach.
It's easy to come off creepy. Even if that's not your intentions.
The best thing to do is keep it short and sweet.
” hello my name is ” your name” compliment her & ask her name.
I would love to get to know you better here's my number xxxxxxxxxxx... If you are interested in getting to know each other better ”
Don't come on to strong. DON'T BE A CREEP
Don't be aggressive.
Don't be rude.
Don't follow her around. Shell notice & will be freaked out.
****Give her your number instead of asking for hers.
Simple & sweet.
I think what makes it's easier to go online is most people are so socially awkward lol they don't know how to talk to people that are outside of their general circle.
Sad but true🤦♀️
if I am out and a man chats me up and wants to get to know me better and I go for him too then I will give him my email address and leave it at that then
I'd be turned off, but that's just me. I've only liked a couple guys (one is now my boyfriend), and I have to get to know them as a friend first. Some girls would love that.
I’m fine with it as long as it’s not anyone creepy, but I attract mostly good people so I’m not too worried about it.
I'd be okay with it as long as you dont say anything creepy or alarming. It's the best way to meet people.
It happens fairly regularly. I usually feel comfortable about it unless it's the middle of the night on an empty street or something.
Well, to be honest guys don't approach me, however, if I was to be approached then it wouldn't be awkward for me. I would engage in a casual chat
I am usually really shy and quiet so I would be okay with it, but I would probably just give the guy the wrong signals
If they're not creepy about it I might feel flattered, but I wouldn't flirt back or anything. I don't really do that with strangers.
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