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Are they joking, or is it probably legit? People jokingly say things about themselves, and it can be endearing. If they were actually a pervert, I probably wouldn't be into being with them. But it would need clarification on just what their 'perversion was'. Many things could just be lumped into the funny old 'eccentric' category.
My boyfriend told me this from day 1,. It actually turned me on more to him🤷♀️I think it depends on the person saying it, if they have the look and stuff, then id he grossed out., yes lol
Exactly, I too think it depends on who says it!
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It could mean anything. Sadly most people think of child abuse.. But they could have fetish that they think is perverse...
Yes, some perversions I saw were sick indeed
Some are, but some are quite strange but arousing, the shoe one gets me me way they kiss and lick them, never had that affection to shoes. The best one like said earlier is feet never knew how women love having three feet massaged and kissed and sucked but I am game with most things if it makes them happy...
I'd laugh and just think she was being honest. I wouldn't necessarily have a negative view of it.
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Well... hmmm. Depends on context. We all like sex. It's human nature. I would teasingly describe myself that way to my partner. But we all know certain things, objects, actions cross a huge line. So it would really depend on how it was said.
I would say winner winner chicken dinner!
We’re all perverts. It’s just that society shames sexuality. Christianity is partly to blame here. I’m not sure what percent though.We’re animals. We’re supposed to fuck eachother. You can’t rationally and logically suppress your sexuality. That’s something you cannot do without a very concerted effort to be celibate completely and force yourself to never think about sex. Most people do not want that. Most people wanna fuck!
That's well and good but experience taught me to be a little careful when someone makes that kind of statements - sometimes it can mean they are willing or don't care about hurting or abuse you for their pleasure.
Abuse me for her pleasure? Oh baby 🤤
Not so fun for real
Haha i would be abit excited actually like "oh boy oh boy i wonder what it is omg i hope its nothing with peeing and pooping omg i hope she doesn't want me to tie her up or tie me up or wanna buy tons of sado toys"... Come to think of it most of my excitement would be from hearing what it is and hoping its something "innocent". But ofc id be weary of the "serious stuff".
Same here, hope it's nothing harmful or abusive
I'd prefer it personallyThat'll just give me better ideas for my animations n suchAlways a good thing in my bookI feel everyone has some sort of perversion in their head, it's just wether or not they are comfortable with themselves or you enough to talk about it.
Next? Seriously though, not everything a guy thinks needs to be spoken. Guys are generally perverts, it's how they deal with it that matters.
Ironically enough I had a girl telling me this and I spent like three days trying to figure out if it was a red flag or not.
Telling you my same opinion? Or that she was a pervert?
That she described herself as a "shameless pervert". For some reason I feared it hid some creepy stuff since she has already particular hobbies.
A little kinky dinky never hurt haha. I'm pretty kinky myself, so would hope for the same in a partner. Of course if they like, masterbate in public shops, or go to kids parties dressed as clowns and expose themselves, then it's no longer a kink but straight up perversion. The litmus test is "would fulfilling this person's kinks cause distress, humiliation, or harm to other people?" If "yes" but they stil lwanna do it anyway, they're a pervert. If "no", they're just kinky.
edit: "non consensual" distress, humiliation, or harm.
I'd take it as joking/flirting. I do it with my partner all the time. She does it with me too. It doesn't mean we're only in it for sex lol. It just means we know how to joke with each other. Understanding and similar sense of humor is important in a relationship.
I mean, I think, of myself as a bit of a pervert. But if ask him why he thinks that and if its overkill as to why, then id probs bail.
It would depend on what she's talking about. Perverse has several definitions, one of which is "contrary to accepted and expected standards or practice". Depending on what that IS, I might welcome her perversions.
Context is key for this question. It's all relative to the given situation.
It depends, for instance I can be a pervert if I am playing cards against humanity but if my partner is a full on pervert watching porn all the time or constantly going to strip clubs or just general doing perverted things to women or men making them feel uncomfortable I would see that as a mayor red flag. Not the type of man I would want to be with.
I've been called a perv by both ladies and guys... my guy friends find it normal since they also are as heterosexual as me... but the ladies only like it when in the mood and quite frankly in bed only... no one likes to hear such naughty talk knowing that it can turn them on... so luckily the ladies who've been very dirty and slutty have shon it where it counts.. underneath the sheets
Umm... no. I wouldn’t care if it was a joke. I don’t find it funny and I’d probably take that as a green light to get the hell out.
A pervert, someone who practices perversion, is kinky dirty behavior intelligent in the art of seduction. Other people just don't understand. My rude unwanted behavior is quite rough. And no I am not but all of my friends are, luv ya!!!
I would ask them to explain to me the nature of their perversion.We may share that kink. If so, party time. 😈
One persons perversion is an others normal. It’s perspective! I am of the mind that I will try to accommodate my lovers desire as long as no harm is brought to anyone. I do not stand in judgment
you have got to be kidding me - thats what I would think
Women: gtfo Men: double down!!! Go for it.Who is right?
I'd say there's no right, but it should depend on what the perversion is.
Let s be honest. We all have a certain perversion if u look up and use the strict definition of pervert. It can even be annd originally was a non-sexual adjective. I. e. to pervert something meaning to lead something away from being natural into being unnatural. Or to corrupt. Interesting how language has evolved there.
As long as it's not abusive or illegal
I think it's a double standard, because most guys want their female partner to be a complete nympho manic, but if it was a guy , the female partner you be called a perv for sharing his horniness
I'd say I love you, lol. But seriously l never heard anyone say it with a straight face only jokingly or to let me know they were adventurous sexually!
I’d try to look at their actions and see if they match their words.
I’d say what a strange thing to say. Please explain. Then hope it’s just a misunderstanding.
If is a girl is sexy as hell but if is a guy then is creepy that's the rule always
Jokingly: DisappointedFlirty: ExitedSeriously: Exited
I would tell her we all have our own diffrent preference that's what makes us interesting.. I love a very sexual woman
Honestly, I think one way or another, we're all pervs in our own little perverted ways
I would think she was joking. I would hope she was joking.
I dont believe you... Show me... come on lets go. Lets see
They probably are joking and feel a bit guilty about having pure natural desires
You know, I’m somewhat of a pervert myself (creepy willem dafoe smile)
I'd say let's b perverted together but only together. Lol
I would love to hear that. The more sex the better.
I would ask: What, specifically, do you mean by "pervert"?
It would depend if I deemed them as vile or not. If so, likely leave.
I'd be a little worried but could work past it together
Id think i struck gold... nothing wrong with a pervert girl
I would challenge her and win but never let her go
I'd believe him and run away.
I wouldn't be surprised.
I would be turned on, tbh.
Women are like: F*** this shit im out!
Meh I am like that too save exceptions
Red flag and I would dump him.
Uptight much eh
@Ayer93 Not interested in perverts.
So you don't want sex huh
I'd be curious to find out myself.
I would rather have her be naughty and flirty
I guess I would think they were a pervert.
Agree with them. 😀
Even if it's something harmful or abusive?
Look like she told me. She's always right and i have to agree with her. (she's watching me bro) 😉
I'd be like fuck yeah!
I will take it as a joke
I would probably be curious and ask about it.
I feel everyone is pervert to some degree
Now we're talking hehe
I mean... its not inaccurate.
If she did? Great! So am I
I would need some specifics.
At times, you understand the reality
Run run run away !
Bounce out of there
Lucky cause I’m one too
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