And often with women, the hints are too subtle (ie they are mistaken and just being friendly possibly and not real interest).
Say it directly like "I am interested in you!"?
Ask him out for coffee or something (a date). Do you know if he's single even? Another option, "Hi, I find you very attractive and I wondered if you are currently seeing anyone?" Depends if you've ever talked to him before? How you know him etc. But that shows interest and he can't really doubt that. It's pretty clear.
He is single. My friend works with him and he said this guy seems shy. We already talked to each other. He started flirting and I decided to introduce myself and ask his name. He only answered his name... this guy was speechless and kinda paralyzed.
Sounds like not many women have shown interest in him, and/or just shy in general. So yeah, see if he wants to grab a coffee or something sometime? Or maybe even your friend could talk to him and let him know your interest (if you can't)? He could just say something like "You remember my friend..., well she likes you and wondered if you'd like to..." (if he'll do that for you?). Coming from you would be better, but if you can't do it?
As you said, "sounds like not many women have shown interest in him", yes, it is probably right. My other friend (female) asked me "why this guy? He is too ugly for you". My other girl friend asked me if I was okay because he is not handsome. See! My friend, that one who works with him, told me to write him a note.
A note is good too. And everyone has different views and likes. Your friends may think he's not attractive, but you like him. Don't let your friends influence you if you genuinely like him and if you see him differently. I myself have been called everything from "gorgeous" to "ugly", literally lol. Their opinion of his looks don't matter, yours does. They aren't dating him, you are (hopefully) lol. If you do this, let me know what you do and how it goes! :)
Thank you so much! So you were called between gorgeous to ugly? Beauty is relative, I think so. I hope to give you good news then! lol
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