I"m okay with being a little flirty, just not too much because that's not who I am as a person
That is so interesting to me. Can you explain how you aren't flirty as a person? Do you mean you are too shy or not that into sex or think it's morally wrong or something?
Nothing is wrong with it! I am more of a shy person. Like with the picture, I feel kinda of rude ignoring it, but I also don't want to objectify him. When I was dating my ex, it was different because we had been together for a while and the flirting just kind of came naturally and I didn't even realize I was doing it until afterwards.I've also had guys flirt with me and it put me in an awkward position, so I definitely don't want to do that to anymore.
Okay shyness is understandable."Like with the picture, I feel kinda of rude ignoring it, but I also don't want to objectify him."He's not going to feel objectified 😂 That is a woman's mentality. If a girl says nothing, I'm going to err on the side of thinking she isn't attracted to me or she just isn't a sexual person.How long were you with your ex for and how long have you talked to his guy? You said awhile.You mean when you flirted back with guys you liked it put you in an awkward position? Then that is understandable to not flirt.
I was with my ex for almost 3 years, and I've been talking to this guy for about 2 months. And no, I meant when guys have flirted with me it has put me in an awkward position for any of several reasons. I'm not into him like that, whatever he said was kind of offensive, too cheesy, I don't know how to respond, or I overall wish I was not there at the moment😂
Okay 2 months is a bit early. It sounds like he wants to flirt by sending you that pic though.If you like this, flirting might not be that bad then right?
So what does it take to even be spoken to by ladies in today's society?
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If a girl told you "you look alright", you would take that as a compliment? And not think that she felt obligated to say it or that she wasn't impressed? I think that would sound bad lol
Lol i would be happy to hear she likes it. Altough not much girls like my dad body so it will never happen☺😣