so this 20year old (i’m 18) threw a house party and i ended up staying the night with him. he kind of kept bring up like hooking up and stuff and asked me if i was that type of girl he asked me if my friends thought i was going to hookup with him that night. i said no bc i didn’t even know i was spending the night. so we ended up talking throughout the whole night and really got to know each other and i personally had a lot of fun and then just snuggled and fell asleep. and i found out that he told his friends that he hates me bc i didn’t have sex with him that night? did i like waste his time? did he just want me for my body? like what was going through his head. like i’m just bit the type of girl to sleep with anyone. i like to get to know them. is it bad that i wasn’t ready?