What eyebrow thing?Like how nervous? What gives away the nervousness?
Oh yeah they also tend to get closer. Even the shy ones ofen do this. Even if they dont speak to you they often find a way to be around you.
By around you, you mean around you physically right?Like, lets say taking coffee break at the same time as you?
Like when you first look at someone (first initial reaction to recognising them) guys eyebrows raise a little if they're attracted. It only lasts a moment. If his demeanor changes, he might be fine one second and then the girl is present and then his behaviour changes. Again staring also helps with nervous people. If he is nervous he's going to look down when you catch him staring and if he likes you will catch a few stares regardless of how hard he tries not to.
SO if you work in a hallway, and a guy has to pass by you to get to his office, from entrance and kitchen. SO normally, guy only passes by the opposite direction of where you sit, and just looks straight, do not look in your direction, what would you think. And this guy would greet you (say hi, hello etc), sometimes, when you bump him in the kitchen. Or in the morning. Then look down.Is there anything in this behaviour that would set you off?
Yes physically. Yeah that or another example would be if you were at a party and you notice him always around wherever you decide to be. Even if he looks busy, most of the time the done intentionally. However that's not a good sign by itself it has to be that he does some things previously stated as well. If there aren't any other signs I stated he is most likely just midning his own business doing his thing.
No. That just sounds like a person you see around often and it would be rude to ignore their existence so you just make small talk. The hallway thing, dont think I would read too much into it
Okay thats good.So lets say you have a very ugly and offensive looking colleague. If he is doing only these, do you get uncomfortable?
Like, should he also stop greeting/smiling when he happens to meet your gaze?
Only doing what? Sorry give me a quick recap of what he is supposed to be doing just to make it clear.
Like wishing in the morning sometimes. Smiling when you happen to meet eyes, saying bye sometimes.
Imagine the ugliest dude you can.
No that's pretty normal. Isn't that how colleagues interact? Lol
You can't be that bad dude. Have some faith in yourself
Sorry. I jsut dont like to make anyone uncomfortable.And apologies again for the appearance thing. Actually, I know I am ugly. But I am at peace with it. It does not bother me anymore (Thank god for that). However, sometimes people get uncomfortable in my presence. I normally just avoid them completely. But this girl is my co-worker. And I can't do much about the office arrangement.
Thank you for your help.
How do you know they got uncomfortable? You dont need to apologise to anyone, its fine.
Its a small thing. I learned to pick up on that over the years. Smile would be forced. They avoid looking at us. Sort of give that evil smirk to others after they both look at us. I am not sure if I can explain this to anyonewho has not experienced this.
I see. So if a guy doesn't look at you or stare at you, you wouldn't think he likes you?
Yes. Or doesn’t think I’m attractive
Really? Even if you are like the best looking girl of the whole company that you work for?
Hmmmm, I never thought of that actually. I have no idea! Do you purposely not look at pretty girls? Or whaat are ways you give big giveaways that you like a girl?
I have never tried to giveaway that I like a girl. Its not something I wanna do.I am just wondering, if unintentionally or out of my control, I gave away somethings that could make her realize that I have crush on her.
Oh for sure there are unintentional ways that you can give the realization that you have a crush on her!!!
has it ever happened to you?
How was the guy actiung?
Okay, well there’s a lot by the way he acts. but the one way is his behaviour when other guys talk to me. He gets so eye glued to me. Then he’ll ask about it. Does that help? Or do you need another way?
I think I got it.The way i act I am pretty sure I am invisble. And thats awesome.
Can I ask why you try to hide that you like her?
Well, first, she is drop dead gorgeous. 10/10. And i am like 1/10 at best. I dont wanna make things uncomfortable for her.
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What if the guy actively try not to look at you?
like looks anywhere but at me?
Yes. Mostly look on floor.
yeah i'd either assume that he was shy and liked me or he just couldn't stand the sight of me lol
Whoa. Both are bad. What if occasionaly, like once in two weeks, he smiles and say hi to you?
uh I'd assume that he was interested in talking to me ig
You guess. Meaning mostly you won't think much about it right?
No. Just didn't want my crush to know that I have crush on her 😂😂😂.Also would not want her to think I can't stand her. Although I doubt she would think that.
don't worry... i'm sure if you haven't been too obvious she'll never knowif you don't mind my asking tho, why don't you want her to know?
Well, I am not just not handsome. I am somewhat along the lines of "ew" sort of guy. So I dont want her to feel uncomfortable.
hm... I get what you're saying but if there's any chance that she likes you or even if she's a good friend you might just wanna say something cuz you don't wanna miss out on that chance...
Thanks for your support. I am confident that there is none. Pretty sure she has a boyfriend. She is always surrounded by guys trying to impress her.
aww well... sorry bout that... and you're welcome anytime lol
What if they avoid to look at you. Like look at ground instead?