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It's a good thing that they both ended well.
I'm guessing you've never been in a bad relationship?
Why do I need to hang on to irrelevant feelings to validate a bad relationship?
If a person has been traumatized badly enough or abused, they don't have much choice about that.
Ok, now that makes more sense. Should've been added to the context of the question.
I guess people can have different definitions of the word "horrible".
Absolutely, including all details will get you better answers.