i can't keep a convo going for a long time so i tend to ask question after questions and i think its weird but she hasn't told me yet I don't know.
If I were you I would try practicing with a buddy or pick an interesting topic to talk about (something where there is much to talk about) like maybe something you both like. if you ask a question, try to pick something where she can go off about it and you can just listen. Also if a girl tells you stuff it’s good to respond with basic stuff like “yeah” and “me too” as an examples. Also though when you’re talking make sure to repeat something she says. For example if she’s talking a lot about her trip to Florida and she says something like “the service was great” you should say something like “oh the service? Sounds like a good place” make sure to (on occasion) do this though. All of this shows that you’re listening to everything she is saying and that it’s not just going on through one ear and out of the other. However, it could possibly be that she is the issue and not you, if you ask questions and she keeps not giving a decent response then she’s either not interested or she’s stuck up or something. try to just remain calm when you’re talking and just know that there are so many amazing girls out there and that you don’t need them as much as you might think and the matter of the fact is that they should need you; a genuinely good guy who wants to improve on himself in certain ways. That shows humbleness and character. Remain chill when you talk and if someone doesn’t show interest then just end the convo there and do something else. You can even end it like “anyway great talking to you”. It shows that you don’t need them and that you’re the one doing them a favor by talking to them cause you’re cool and they should appreciate that.
Also maybe it’s a good thing to just have a quick convo so that you don’t look needy, you could also be the one to end it. Make it a mission to ask only 2 questions at most and try to make them ones that can be long and then say nice talking to you I’ll catch you later or something
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And obviously I mean in person. You should limit online conversations and texting because the whole idea is meeting irl and connecting in person
how do i practice?
By talking to more women. You can’t script this, it has to flow naturally
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