you've pretty much described every woman texting these days with some of these. Just straight up expect guys to carry the conversation and when the guy doesn't bother or decides to not give them the attention they get bitchy.
Well it’s attractive when a guy takes lead, initiate, or be fun. But it’s ultimately a two way street. I don’t think anyone should be demanding when no one confess liking each other, not much has been invested in both sides, making promises, or exclusive.
Ps not every woman is like this to your reference 😇 I’m not and some others aren’t I’m sure lol.
Yeah I agree. with that it's definitely a two way street. Also I've actually had some girls expect me to entertain them at points like "you're supposed to make me laugh" kinda chat.
Did you felt like you put effort or the girls were just being too demanding of you?
Did you felt like you put effort or the girls were just being too demanding of you to entertain them?
Nah if a girl isn't reciprocating then I don't continue talking to them. It depends on the dynamic though and the situation.Only if they were joking but if they were dead serious about it they'd be told swiftly to fuck off lol
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I have a 3 minute rule. If you don't reply within 3 minutes, and haven't told me you are busy with something, I may not be there when you come back.
That's very unrealistic even for me.
Don't knock it 'till you try it! ;) It keeps my chat partners on their toes!
I'm not trying to keep people on their toes. Just having a courteous chat partner. But whatever if it works for you and people still stick around for you then kudos but I'm not so pessimistic
I'm only being silly. I'm not really that harsh. :)
Lol. But I know damn well some people are. Like that's crazy
Glad you agree
Cuz they died did this to me he's supposedly like me but... He ended up blocking me because he wanted space... How do you want space if you're all the way in Pakistan.. 🙄😒💔 whatever.
Hahaha I totally feel you! Sometimes people don’t even deserve your reply.
Now he blocked me on here and whatapp.. I really liked him an THOUGHT he liked me... 💔😥 He was 5 years younger then me though.. If he unblocks me I probably won't talk to him any more... He kinda broke my heart 💔😥😞. So I give up.
Yeah you’re better off without jerks
He probably will never unblock me any way so I'ma focus on my self.
Can you please tell, what else can a stranger ask?
@Gurpratap you could talk about interests, things in common, hobbies, music etc.open ended questions are good, just try avoid being repetitive with them :)
I hate one word at responses it made me lose interest.. especially if they were talking to me a lot in the beginning... Now it's all of a sudden one words... 🙄😒💔
@PetrovaFire92 When I type one or two words, maybe I can expect a similar reply. When I write something in great detail, I want a response that proves they bothered to read it
Same for the girl.
@PetrovaFire92 Yeah it sucks.
I'm usually the one who responds instantly and waits hours or days or weeks for a response 😬
@Acidgamer Mine is usually very good about this. I am Too.
Wish I had friends like that and stuff
@Acidgamer If you don't, were they ever friends?
I don't know man I mean maybe people are just intimidated by a Demisexual lol. I guess I don't blame them cuz I don't sleep much so I message at any given point. 8 pm to 7 am are my most active hours on average.
@Acidgamer They should then accept u unconditionally.
But I'm also the guy who stops playing in the middle of online matches on video games when my best friend (and the girl I like (same person by the way)) messages me or I get any notification related to her... Lol so I guess I'm just creepy and weird but I'd drop anything for her.
@Acidgamer lol I think everyone should honestly make concerted efforts.
I just love talking to people but I'm just so annoying. I mentally can't do anything about it. I got stuff going on with me that I just use a more unique and quirky personality so I can maybe distract people from my conditions. Visually I have a few skin conditions, enamel erosion, several Cowlicks in my hair, I'm very short (5 ft 6in), high metabolism (trust me it sucks), and obviously adhd but that's mental even tho you can tell I'm hyper when you see me. Mental stuff is things like adhd, PDD, ocd, anger issues (which has drastically improved since I was diagnosed in kindergarten so it's mainly just major game rage now), and really weird memory. Currently for the past month I've been getting tests done for my heart and lungs because I have been having trouble with breathing and random jabbing pains in my heart when I have those breathing problems. So we are trying to determine what's going on with me now. As much as it sucks. At least I'm the one getting all the stuff while my 3 sisters are fine for the most part.
@Acidgamer Good Luck and Stay Safe now!! xx
What should a stranger do except small talk?
Personally I'd rather have something more than small talk, obviously it starts with small talk but if it's all there is and there is no interesting conversation then nah I'm good.
this isn't a movie though. Small talk is a necessary part of the process of getting to know someone and even starting a conversation.
You're right, personally I think talking to someone for a while and still being at the "small talk stage" is really stagnant.
I feel the same way, but when they first started talking to you they had paragraphs too now it's just one word answers or sentences.
@PetrovaFire92 yeah that totally messes me up, and once someone happens to do that I just chill them.
@Acidgamer that shit is to fake.
Some people don't like talking on the phone that much.. or if at all...
@PetrovaFire92 yep, I'm one of those people, I fucking hate talking on the phone
@Rippersavage same.. I don't do it unless I have to if it's something important. 🤷
Being too slow? I mean god forbid people do things other than pay attention to you right? "What do you mean you were eating so you could stay alive? Where's my reply?"
@Silver158 I meant in texting being too slow to reply and take years to get a person reply on back.
if they're taking years then they're not interested.
Hate that too
What bothers you?
Reply’s with one letter like k, and one worked replies like, likewise, right, thanks exc. I love message reply’s In-depth and personal :-)
Yes for sure 👍
Though I do like using emojis sometimes as a one word reply like 👍🏻
🦾 👨🏼🦸🏼♂️🏋🏼♀️👨🏼🔧💪🏻 ✝️ 🥊 🏆🛳🏝🏖🌆🎉❤️🤍💙
This is emoji city interesting
Ya an emoji city prepping @Iron_Man starting with of course the one and only @Iron_Man he’s great man, a strong hero, a great man of the faith, a champion boxer from the city of cruise ships and sandy beaches, who celebrates life and loves America 😊
@SunnyCaliGirl Aww thank you so much. Sorry but I fell asleep
Of course friend, I’m glad you finally got sleep and hopefully you get more restful sleep. I worry sometimes you don’t give yourself enough sleep, so it’s refreshing to hear you fell asleep 😴
For 30 minutes. What about you you're a night owl as well? l
Yes that’s true I can be a night owl 🦉 but I have noticed personally I do a lot better when I’ve gotten a proper amount of sleep
You should start doing that soon. After the Election
Yes and tonight would be nice too, it’s been a bit of a rough one but hopefully I’ll be able to snooze soon :)
I hope your ok? Don't forget to buy your powdered greens and also take your vitamins and drink plenty of water and exercise 👍
Yes I’m ok, and I was able to get plenty of sleep last night. I do need to work on better water intake and get back on track with my diet. 🙂
@SunnyCaliGirl I got four hours of sleep
@Iron_Man good! I’m so glad to hear that
@SunnyCaliGirl That was last night that’s not very much but I did take a nap today
Hopefully you are able to get some proper rest tonight
@SunnyCaliGirl I’ll try but I’m washing clothes right now I’m getting ready to
Don’t forget to buy candy for the trick-or-treaters even though you won’t be there until later. Your mom & dad and brothers can pass it out the candy. So you don’t have any sisters?
Happy washing 🧼 👕 👖
@SunnyCaliGir Thanks. Remind me to shave on Halloween before night time
Ok I'll do my best to remember, I'll send you a Halloween message
@SunnyCaliGirl. Perfect thank you for the Halloween message and reminding me to shave on Saturday in the daytime on Halloween 🎃 LOL
Haven't sent them yet but your welcome lol. I do have some happy news, I got to have the honor of taking an cake order for the up and coming Marine Corps Birthday for a certain battalion
@SunnyCaliGirl awesome will you be making the cake for the United States Marine Corps?
I had a dream about that When I took a nap today and I was in it using the battle baton one stick to double pads at the end beating the other guys up
Oh wow that sounds like an interesting kinda dream
Our cake decorating will be decorating the birthday cake for the marines :-)
@SunnyCaliGirl oh ok
how much is the order?
The cake will be around $96 because it’s a full sheet cake and they ordered carrot cake for the base.
COOL sounds good
@SunnyCaliGirl Its been almost 6 years this December since we have been talking 😊 👍 what happens to me when I am an old man and can't take care of myself If I am all alone? Will you be taking care of me? What if I'm all by myself what about a memorial service for me at the military site in case I am all alone. I do not want to be cremated I have a plot already
Wow I didn’t realize that! Those years have flown by too fast!! It makes me a little sad tbh to think of you old and not able to care for yourself. I would hope that you have someone in your life who’s gonna take care of you my friend, I really do. But I hope before that time comes that I’m fully on my own and have the means to be bicoastal. I also hope that I’d be able to be around if needed and do what I could. :)My friend you still got a long ways to go, but I’m glad to know you plan ahead :) ❤️💙
@SunnyCaliGirl thank you pray that everything will be taken care of and I will be respected Someone will help me out. Hopefully I live a long life Me and my brother he is 13 years older than me
You’re welcome friend :) I will pray indeed those things for you indeed.
@SunnyCaliGirl Thank you so much well I finally got my laundry washed and dry just now
Woohoo 🥳 that’s awesome!
@SunnyCaliGirl lol thanks
There are girls on tinder like this. Don't even know them but they expect to be a priority in your life... It's hilarious.
@Silver158 LOL red flag alert.
Especially when they hit a lot to stay in the beginning now it's just one word answers or replies.. 🙄😒💔
Had a lot to say in the beginning. Sorry for typos.. I'm speaking on a stupid microphone.. on my phone.