Boys and girls, what turns you off when someone texts you?

[Nigjt]

When someone takes their sweet time in texting u back because it's like okay Damn I know I am very slow at texting okay but it don't take no 20 minutes to text someone back unless u are texting with other's also or when they act like they can't talk text about sex or something then I'll be like BITCH get the fuck out of here for real I am a Man it's like what we text about an talk about it ain't talking to no fucken 12 year old or something.
I mean that's why guy's are the way we are because a BITCH alway's won't to try an make a Man change what he like to talk about.
Who the fuck wonts to talk about some Mother fucking Money all the Damn time these day's that's all a BITCH won't to talk about is money an be like no BITCH. Lets talk about u sucking my DICK? Huh.
So then she be like I gotta go an I be like good luck find that money HOE for real get on that JOB BITCH.
let me get u some of them high hill's BITCH.
Okay y'all I am done but a BITCH pist me off this morning b4 day light this morning an I ket a BITCH have it for real.
God Bless

[ElvenMr]

No manners, texting me like i just insulted you or something is really a turn off.
Other then that maybe really bad or lazy grammar.

[bobalife]

• dry text
• Straight to sexual... when I don’t even know you? Lol
• Angry or insensitive texts
• Passive aggressive texts
• Makes a joke about something I asked to not do or dislike
• Demanding my time or attention
• Triple+ msgs when I haven’t reply... 😨😂
• When guys text me like they know me when they don’t know nothin about me... to get on my good side
• Dead end texts Lol
• One word texts or low effort texts
• No share of laughter but just seriousness all the time or too much goofball but has no seriousness
• Open closed texts
• Misspellings and no attempts to fix it lol

[likelyOK]

Send nudes, “what’s ur Snapchat” anything sexual off the bat, anytime they ignore a text rather than saying no.
anything that makes it really hard to understand what they are emotionally trying to convey

[Chikky]

Negative about life, I think I could condone it but I think that shit pisses me off big time.

Asking me to meet up when I'm not yet comfortable chatting with you yet

Telling me you love me, bitch that's about a day we just met

Talking naughty, when I don't know you yet

[DannyUk2017]

What turns me off?
When i'm in THE MIDDLE of texting/idea/elaborating/continuing a conversation, and suddenly Subject changes... i'm like... really? 😞
Or when in the middle of the conv and the "person" from the other End, just... Pufff! Gone!, without a word, or a warning, or a heads up!, and then comes hiurs later and texts like we were in the middle of it!
And to be honest in the middle of Sexting also!

[Dongtai]

I’m probably going to catch some heat for this.


I get turned off when a girl I haven’t known very long sends me a random sext. Especially if we aren’t exclusive and/or haven’t gotten physical together. While the guy side of me can appreciate a sext, logically I’m thinking “Man. She probably does this often with any guy who makes her feel good in any remote way.” I’ll still want her physically but my interest in wanting something long term with her goes down.

[anon1903]

• Dick pics.
• Copy pasted lyrics.
• Language other than English.
• Gossiping
• Whining
• Reply taking more than 24 hrs
• Reply under 1 min
• Multiple messages on different topics all at once.
• Single message bread crumbing
• Family photos
• Weirdness
• Boredom
• Offensives
• Sometimes the person itself

[Citizenkirk]

Unnecessary and extraneous use of abbreviations with no possibility of being able too decifer and translate if you were born before 2005. I just delete the message unread, because it's unreadable. I thought about using Morris code in retaliation, but it wouldn't be the same. Morris code is real. The gibberish sent over the web isn't, and never will be, until someone publishes an Internet Gibberish for Dummies translation book.

[Simplismilez]

Not engaging in the conversation. If I feel like I'm the only one making an effort to keep it going then it becomes a chore. Also when people can't just let me know they aren't available to talk. I had an ex friend who constantly start a conversation with me and then it would literally take all day to get a response back after I answered him in a timely manner. It takes one text to say hey I'm busy now. Talk later. I hate when people do that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

1. Abbreviating words that should not be abbreviated. Examples: what are you doing - wyd, how about you - hbu

2. Using one or two letters for a word instead of spelling out the word. Examples: you - u, see or sea - c, your - ur, be or bee - b, tea or tee - t

3. Using numerical numbers as part of a word or for the same word that has a different spelling and meaning. Examples: together - 2gether, before - b4, too or to - 2, for - 4, won - 1

Stopping in the middle of a conversation with no explanation as to why. This especially gets to me when they are the one who started the conversation. They then want to pick the conversation back up hours later or days later after You ask them a question.

[mario_with_no_luigi]

- Bad grammar
- Typos
- Too many abbreviations that I’d have to figure out and google
- Misuse of punctuation
- Too many emojies
- Replying to my texts hours or days later (or obviously ghosting me). If any of these happen for no good reason, I had already lost interest.

[The_Outlaw]

Asking me, 'u home' just like that when I'm more obviously than not going to answer because I JUST got home and don't want to be disturbed. Or worse if I don't answer there's a follow up along the lines of 'hello?' or '?' Pulease. For the love of god I wish they'd take a hint - I'm not going to answer.

[MCheetah]

- Bad grammar
- Excessive cursing
- Overuses of "LOL" or emojis
- Ghosting
- Falling asleep or disappearing for long periods of time without an explanation
- Asking stupid/pointless questions ("what u doin?")

[JKingOff]

If they can't hold a decent conversation... I honestly can't stand unintelligent people that have no substance. Why bother talking to me if you're just going to sit there and stay silent, or give one liner dead end responses instead of trying to continue the conversation?

[Butterflyy88]

-one word responses
-small talk
-repetitive conversations like "wuu2", "hey you up to much", "I'm bored" etc.

[Rippersavage]

• When people start a conversation with one or two words (like "hi", "hey", "what's up" etc)
• When people reply with one word
• When people reply with an emoji and nothing else
• Dry texter

[Dargil]

Text grammar. You can vocally transcribe.
Do it, correct it. Use whole words, good grammar and complete sentences.

[Unit1]

ANY user, that texts me "i'm a naughty girl, punish me, i will be your girl tonight" within the first few messages is 100% guaranteed a scammer. Won't even try that.

[pocketman]

When a girl jumps right into explicit sexual conversation without any flirting/teasing first. Like when she says "hi", then "i want to sit on your dick".

[InternetGuy]

Short, boring text and just showing an overall lack of interest in the conversation.

[DexWest]

Ignorance and stupidity. If you can’t spell or use proper punctuation, then I won’t talk to you. Furthermore, if you start with what’s up, or sup. Not talking to you

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Yes I’m ok, and I was able to get plenty of sleep last night. I do need to work on better water intake and get back on track with my diet. :)

[Anonymous]

Assuming she's a girl and we're friends and nothing insulting, I would say one word answers hands down.