Girls, Have you always had a thing for older guys, even since you were younger?

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Also, how old were you when you first started getting looks and attention from older guys? Were there certain kinds of environments that you noticed that you would get it more than others? Share your experience!

Answer 1

hellohruu

Xper 5

I actually had a phase in my let’s say middle teens where I was attracted to much older guys. Now I would really like my age only. I can think an older guy is attractive but I wouldn’t consider him as any type of romantic partner or sexual for that matter, anymore. I used to like them in my teens but now definitely not. Now I see them as guidance or father figures.

hellohruu

1 mo
Oh and also I guess I get attention from people in general a lot so I wouldn’t know. Guys avoids me like the plague anyway so 😝
Gymratt4123

1 mo
You would stand out to me like a green bug!! In just your two piece bathing suit on the beach, walking in the neighborhood in your shorts or coming from school in tight ripped jeans with your jet black hair!😁😉 I would definitely notice you years ago even.. and would have found it, almost impossible to not approach you when we were reasonably private.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
I would definitely be interested in hearing more about your flirting with them and the conversations you would have with them at that time, in your mind teens..
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hellohruu

1 mo
Oh I definitely wouldn’t flirt with them, just be really shy. I had no idea how to flirt at that age or be attractive so definitely no! :D
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Sure! Especially that young and brand new.. but what you do you think then if one of them boldly and confidently approached you somewhere semi private like a park and you immediately found Him attractive?
hellohruu

1 mo
I’d definitely be creeped out and shy away
Gymratt4123

1 mo
And do you feel like most of your girlfriends around that time, were just as reserved.. or did you hear stories of them making a move or having a brief affair with a much older man?
hellohruu

1 mo
No way, that’s incredibly immoral in my country. That’s how we were raised.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Interesting, where were you raised? What would be considered immoral you were saying..
hellohruu

1 mo
South Europe. We don’t like big age differences. Such relationships are out of opportunistic feelings of the guy and sexual feelings of girl. Nobody likes that here. Not a honest, true relationship. It could be out of love in other more developed places, though!
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Good points! Makes sense. So out of love entirely then, in more develop places you would think.. such as like?

Answer 2

hellohruu

Oh and also I guess I get attention from people in general a lot so I wouldn’t know. Guys avoids me like the plague anyway so 😝

Answer 3

Gymratt4123

You would stand out to me like a green bug!! In just your two piece bathing suit on the beach, walking in the neighborhood in your shorts or coming from school in tight ripped jeans with your jet black hair!😁😉 I would definitely notice you years ago even.. and would have found it, almost impossible to not approach you when we were reasonably private.

Answer 4

Gymratt4123

I would definitely be interested in hearing more about your flirting with them and the conversations you would have with them at that time, in your mind teens..

Answer 5

hellohruu

Oh I definitely wouldn’t flirt with them, just be really shy. I had no idea how to flirt at that age or be attractive so definitely no! :D

Answer 6

Gymratt4123

Sure! Especially that young and brand new.. but what you do you think then if one of them boldly and confidently approached you somewhere semi private like a park and you immediately found Him attractive?

Answer 7

hellohruu

I’d definitely be creeped out and shy away

Answer 8

Gymratt4123

And do you feel like most of your girlfriends around that time, were just as reserved.. or did you hear stories of them making a move or having a brief affair with a much older man?

Answer 9

hellohruu

No way, that’s incredibly immoral in my country. That’s how we were raised.

Answer 10

Gymratt4123

Interesting, where were you raised? What would be considered immoral you were saying..

Answer 11

hellohruu

South Europe. We don’t like big age differences. Such relationships are out of opportunistic feelings of the guy and sexual feelings of girl. Nobody likes that here. Not a honest, true relationship. It could be out of love in other more developed places, though!

Answer 12

Gymratt4123

Good points! Makes sense. So out of love entirely then, in more develop places you would think.. such as like?

Answer 13

JaneDoe377

Explorer

Definitely don't have a thing for older guys, but they seem to like me. 20 years older. 😒

Gymratt4123

1 mo
And what about when you were much younger.. when did they first start to like you, you noticed?
JaneDoe377

1 mo
Guys older than me liked me since i was 11 however with much older men, that started when i was about 21.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Hmmm okay, I see. And you had already started developing with curves around then? How did you dress at 11.. and growing up?
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JaneDoe377

1 mo
I dressed like a child at 11. Growing up i dressed like a punk. Not feminine.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Yes I'm very visual and was trying to put it better into context, thank you. And you wore ripped jeans or booty shorts? Open toed shoes or like sneakers usually summertime
JaneDoe377

1 mo
Band t shirts, big baggy pants, sneakers , doc Martins, old man sweaters. I had a completely shaved head through most of my teens. Black leather collar and bracelets with studs or spikes. A mishmash of stuff.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Oh my.. very eclectic taste! Aside from the baggy pants maybe, you were a rockstar! No wonder all those older guys couldn't take their eyes off of you back then.. so much indivuality in your fashion sense and style, so bold even though your disposition may have been shy and timid
JaneDoe377

1 mo
I don't know.
Gymratt4123

1 mo
Yah, nice mishmash though!👍 Feel free to comment and share on my future posts! Looking forward to hearing more from you JaneDoe377

Answer 14

Gymratt4123

And what about when you were much younger.. when did they first start to like you, you noticed?

Answer 15

JaneDoe377

Guys older than me liked me since i was 11 however with much older men, that started when i was about 21.

Answer 16

Gymratt4123

Hmmm okay, I see. And you had already started developing with curves around then? How did you dress at 11.. and growing up?

Answer 17

JaneDoe377

I dressed like a child at 11. Growing up i dressed like a punk. Not feminine.

Answer 18

Gymratt4123

Yes I'm very visual and was trying to put it better into context, thank you. And you wore ripped jeans or booty shorts? Open toed shoes or like sneakers usually summertime

Answer 19

JaneDoe377

Band t shirts, big baggy pants, sneakers , doc Martins, old man sweaters. I had a completely shaved head through most of my teens. Black leather collar and bracelets with studs or spikes. A mishmash of stuff.

Answer 20

Gymratt4123

Oh my.. very eclectic taste! Aside from the baggy pants maybe, you were a rockstar! No wonder all those older guys couldn't take their eyes off of you back then.. so much indivuality in your fashion sense and style, so bold even though your disposition may have been shy and timid

Answer 21

JaneDoe377

I don't know.

Answer 22

Gymratt4123

Yah, nice mishmash though!👍 Feel free to comment and share on my future posts! Looking forward to hearing more from you JaneDoe377

Answer 23

SarahP080102

Xper 7

Yes. I want a man who takes charge and has experienced

Gymratt4123

1 mo
And have you always had that preference, since you were younger?

Answer 24

Gymratt4123

And have you always had that preference, since you were younger?

Answer 25

lanadelrey25

Yoda

Yes I have, since I was 9. And I'm talking 30 years older.

Gymratt4123

1 mo
Feel free to pm me, I would love to hear some of your personal accounts from your past as you first started notice the attention and felt the attraction towards older men.. compared to how you would react to them as you got a little older..

Answer 26

Gymratt4123

Feel free to pm me, I would love to hear some of your personal accounts from your past as you first started notice the attention and felt the attraction towards older men.. compared to how you would react to them as you got a little older..

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