How to handle a colleague with a creepy crush on u?

[btbc92]

Simply go to HR and let them know what your situation is. That way just in case if the situation happens when you must tell him straight and he continues to push, you won't risk getting in trouble. You're there to work and you're not there to have problems in your life let alone in the workplace. If he is so much interested in a girlfriend he needs to find somebody that he can connect with outside of the workplace. Not somebody he actually works with or who works in the same company as him.

[imlost_gb]

I had this happen to me and I felt v odd about it, so I kinda just ignored them cause they'd follow me around the store and this manager got pissy and it's a whole long story that urks me but yeah, it's just that. Ignoring them really or be straight forward with them in a way that doesn't sound like you're hostile.

[Mehzmeh]

Tell them you are not interested. And try not to be around them alone. Never give them any of your contact information. But you have to be honest with them. And I, hate to say this. But you are going to have to be really mean yo them. Until they get the hint.

[nikooo0ooo]

I don't know shit ur pants infront of him or fart mad loud. Or pretend to get a phone call near him and be like DAMN DUDE I can't BELIEVE IM GROWING BARNACLES ON MY LEFT LIP If that don't scare him away you should prolly quit

[OlderAndWiser]

Why is his crush "creepy?" Has he taken any action or made any statement to you to express his feelings?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Either have an honest talk with this dude or talk to your manager about it. Or both.

But talk to him first.

Establish boundaries and be clear you don't reciprocate and that his actions are inappropriate. Document everything, and if he continues then go talk to your manager.

[Marcuslrh]

Communication just tell them straight to leave you alone dont be to aggressive while doing it seen as your in work just politely say your not interested and if it carries on just tell your HR about them

[MrCommodore]

Maintain a clear distance at all times, never kinda be friends, always maintain boundaries.

I had a girl kinda stalking me years ago, turned out in a fairly harmless way, but still weird and worrying at the time.

[SphynxUK]

Be honest and tell them you’re not interested and never will be. Usually works!


However, with stalker like oddballs, you need to contact HR and perhaps the police. These types can become dangerous. I have experienced this first hand.

[Magarmor64]

You tell him that you appreciate that he thinks of you I’m that way, then you simply tell him that you’re just not interested in him in the same way that you only see him as a friend or just a colleague, he might accept that he might not, but if you do in politely enough then he might accept it he might be sad a first but after a short while he’ll be ok.

[Sevenpointfive]

only u can let it creep you out. i've had many people crush on me but the way you handle it determines the outcome. make them a friend and make it known that they are a friend

[ushagomez]

Well if you don’t like the individual then try end overcome it with a little humour. Next time they are with you and other colleagues are around just say oh hi there creepy crusher.

[Massageman]

If it's a colleague at work (which is the usual place you'd use the term "colleague") , either give him a verbal warning and make recording or note of it, or report him straightaway to the boss or rights/abuse department, if you have one.

[goaded]

In the course of the last couple of days, my teenage daughter has complained "nobody's interested in me", and "I'm not going near there, [he]'s a creep".

How about something along the lines of, "I get the feeling you're interested in me. I'm flattered/that's nice, but I don't feel the same way."? You might get some insulting "I wouldn't be interested in a... like you", but at least he'd know where he stands.

[larry69]

Tell him not to look at or talk to you period.
If he even looks your way or speaks to you except in the course of his job description then HR his manager and Legal. Sometimes people need to get fired for their inappropriate behavior.

[Gedaria]

How do you define creepy.
He is old, and you don't fancy old men. I like you but you are are older than my dad.
A younger man , I like you but I don't think my boyfriend would appreciate your attention towards me...
Or something like it...

[mamamai]

What makes their crush creepy? I would just treat them how I treat everyone and if I got asked out, tell them no. Pretty standard

[annie6815]

Be professional, guarded friendly. He will get the hint. Don’t make anything out of it... people are allowed to have crushes

[Kkstarzz96]

This happened to me this year and I reported it and he got fired

[menina]

Avoid talking to them, make sure that you're not alone with them and avoid eye contact.

[AmeerX]

Start becoming creepier then him. Show him you are a total slutty girl.
Or you could just start rumours to destroy his repute and make him hate you

[TacosRAwesome]

Avoid being alone with them and if they hint they want to ask you out tell them you're not interested.

[hucknorris]

Tell him straight up that you noticed he had attention on you and that you are sure he is a nice guy (blah, blah) but that you are not interested. Otherwise he will keep being creepy and thinking “you r giving him mixed vibes” or whatever.

[Avicenna]

Mention a boyfriend or being very interested in a guy

[Anonymous]

Become good friends with a big guy at work and keep him around. Then let the guy know you are not interested. He won't bother you then.

[Jayrock24w]

Ummmmm tbh I don't know, but if it was me ima threaten his dumb ass, lol pull out da glizzy

[dudeinohio]

If you are not into him and he bothers you, go to management and have him get in trouble for sexual harassment.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Creepy crush meaning you don't like him. Whenever he speaks to you, pause think and then give him a response that's professional but tells him you're not interested in talking to him in any other way.

[EyesOfGod]

Tell them the fuck off or you'll shit in their cereal xD

[Makeushiver]

Ignore him politely and don't make any comments or body langgauge that he could misconstrue

[SjE78]

just tell him straight, you are not interested, if he persists then speak with HR

[SenseiSeptred]

Get to know them better, then it might not seem so creepy.

[Anonymous]

Be nice, but direct. Let him know you aren't comfortable with how familiar he's getting.

[Shuri]

I had to report someone to HR once. He left me alone after that.

[Snowman666]

Ask him if he can see your taped down penis through your pants.

[ct1243]

Block him and avoid him since you work with him. If he doesn’t respect that , get legal and file a restraining order

[Anonymous]

Either talk to this person directly and see if that works. Or have a chat with your boss and see if that works. If it doesn't, then go to HR.

[cloudsurfer87]

lol if u don't like em maybe bring em coffee have fun w it

[ElvenMr]

Be nice and just tell him you are not interested in him that way.

[MelaninQueen21]

I would still be polite, but try to tell him that you're not interested. I would also try to avoid him or pretend he's not there.

[Anonymous]

I guess a creepy like my wifes pregnant and he is still flirting with you wanting some from you or a some innocuous like saying you look nice today?

[msc545]

Just tell him you want to be friends. That usually does it.

[Jonathanlama]

just tell him nicely that you are not interested, if he really insists in a worrying way, you can threaten him to complain to the management

[Tstrbrainer]

Avoid them. Don't give any signals which might indicate that you are even remotely interested in that person.

If you appear non responsive, hopefully that person will not try to approach you

[Anonymous]

What's "creepy"? lol But are you sure he does (some people are just plain weird lol). But I would simply tell him (like any other guy) that you're flattered, but you're not interested.

[zagor]

Never been the subject of one, but the girl I had one on would hide in the women's bathroom for long periods...

[KrakenAttackin]

One call, that's all (to HR).

Let me guess, you don't find him attractive so this automatically makes him "creepy"?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My advice is just ignore them or report them to your boss

[OddBeMe]

Just be nice and hope he doesn’t own a gun. Honestly just keep brushing him off until he gets the message.

[serious]

Nothing to handle here. Just keep ignoring them.

[anon1903]

Gotta define creepy crush, honey

[ArcadianBanks]

You tell him to leave you the hell alone

[alice55]

Ignore him, it's what I did and he got the message

[Anonymous]

Ask to be transferred to another department.

[Bidensucks2020]

Is he older? You left out details.

[Anonymous]

Give him a BJ, but be really bad at it. Lots of teeth. He will lose interest.

[tUCK_Frump]

State your feeling blunt and short.

[cloud9vortex1234]

What's creep about him?

[CubaPirate]

A kick in the balls should do the trick

[andy530]

Can you get hr involved to help keep you safe?

[supercutebutt]

Hit him with the jet spray.

[A_Nihilist]

A restraining order would help.

[JosyJosy]

You reject his ass.

[In_Trance]

Creepy meaning you don't think he's good looking