What are some signs that a guy thinks you're beautiful/pretty/attractive without him saying it?

Question

I only ask bc you know that guys won't always admit it or they are too shy to say it. Are there signs that he thinks you're pretty though without him saying it? Thanks!

Answer 1

Natehunter199

Xper 5

His eyes will give it away. Well i know mine will. But if im asked, i will allways anwser truthfuly. I may not walk up to a girl and flat out tell her that she is looking of or is attractive. Seems like girls dont take words like that as compliments anymore. You will get the eye roll and or geesh, can't i go anywhere without guy's trying to sleep with me. I have gotten a lot of bad remarks from girls for just simply trying to tell them that they were looking good in a nice way. So i have learned to just keep my mouth shut for now on

Asker

1 mo
It's mainly because that's all we have experienced in today's society 😬 I cannot speak for all guys, but most of the guys that have complimented me, I could tell that they were just wanting to bed me instead of treating me like a person and simply just telling me. Like you said, their eyes give it away, and I could always tell that they had other motives. Another thing is that we aren't used to hearing it, so it makes us feel weird when we actually hear the words. Girl world is filled with false images of what beauty is defined as on social media, and many of us fall prey to that trap. (i. e. Skinny = pretty, light eyes = pretty, freckles = pretty, etc) I personally am not used to being told I'm attractive in any way, so it makes me feel weird. However, if a girl hears it from the guy she actually likes, she'll appreciate it cuz it is from the person she wants to hear it from. I hope that perspective helped 😂 if you don't mind me asking, what will his eyes look like? Will there be a sparkle in them? A shine? A softness? My crush has brown eyes, so it's actually hard for me to tell whether his pupils are dilated or not
Natehunter199

1 mo
You will just catch him stairing. More then just once. See, if it is me and i just simply want to have a conversation with a girl because i think she is attractive. I will let her catch me stairing at her. Yep, more then once. And i will give a little smile. Depending on her reaction. That is if she ever even notices me. I may approach her.
Asker

1 mo
Okay, he does stare a lot. All the time. He makes eye contact all the time too. There's pretty much never a time when he doesn't make eye contact. He also will tell me when/if a guy customers was staring at me or tells me that they ask where I am. He's bilingual, so those conversations happened in Spanish, obviously.
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Natehunter199

1 mo
So he must be someone you know and talk to already
Asker

1 mo
We work together, yes. I didn't know him before I started working there. We don't see each other a lot when he is in school because he asks to work less in order to make time for it. He got super excited after not seeing me for a month. He was bouncing off the walls, asking me how I was and telling me he liked my nails and stuff.
Natehunter199

1 mo
Well it sounds like he has already given you hints. And he is probably waiting on you now
Asker

1 mo
Well, I don't know what to do. We don't talk outside of work, and I feel like he doesn't engage with me outside of work because he doesn't want to make things awkward, or has a line drawn with seeing coworkers. I'll tell you this, he becomes clumsy when he's around me. I've seen him drop things many times in my presence 😂 he even has stumbled over words as well
Natehunter199

1 mo
Yep, he has a thing for you. Just siply ask him if he would like to do something out side of work some time and exchange number
Asker

1 mo
We've got each other's numbers, but last time I suggested doing something, he freaked out. Then again, that was when we barely knew each other. It's been a little over a year now that I've worked there. Anytime I try to message him, he doesn't respond anyway. So I've given up on trying to do that. I've tried on my end 🤷
Natehunter199

1 mo
Then i guess he isn't ready
Asker

1 mo
Weeeeeeeelllp 😭😭😭 I don't know how to proceed, then. He's always (according to your confirmations) showing me that he likes me, but doesn't make any effort outside of the workplace. I don't know what about me makes him so nervous that he drops stuff and stumbles over words, and laughs at everything I say, and often copies/mimicks/mirrors me.
Natehunter199

1 mo
Im as stumped as you are
Youdontknowme1234

26 d
no he definitely likes you. he's just too awkward to say anything outside of the workplace. just talk to him in person (probably in private) and just ask him out, make it casual so it seems like you want to hang out with him as a friend, but be obvious that you like him. if that makes sense
Asker

26 d
@Youdontknowme1234 that does make sense, but I've already done that once and he freaked out and got all awkward about it. But of course, that was when we only knew each other for two months. It's been a little over a year now, but I'm afraid that I'll get the same reaction from him 😭😭 he never even hints about doing things outside of work with me. You'd think he would, but he hints about anything else except that lol

Answer 2

Asker

It's mainly because that's all we have experienced in today's society 😬 I cannot speak for all guys, but most of the guys that have complimented me, I could tell that they were just wanting to bed me instead of treating me like a person and simply just telling me. Like you said, their eyes give it away, and I could always tell that they had other motives. Another thing is that we aren't used to hearing it, so it makes us feel weird when we actually hear the words. Girl world is filled with false images of what beauty is defined as on social media, and many of us fall prey to that trap. (i. e. Skinny = pretty, light eyes = pretty, freckles = pretty, etc) I personally am not used to being told I'm attractive in any way, so it makes me feel weird. However, if a girl hears it from the guy she actually likes, she'll appreciate it cuz it is from the person she wants to hear it from. I hope that perspective helped 😂 if you don't mind me asking, what will his eyes look like? Will there be a sparkle in them? A shine? A softness? My crush has brown eyes, so it's actually hard for me to tell whether his pupils are dilated or not

Answer 3

Natehunter199

You will just catch him stairing. More then just once. See, if it is me and i just simply want to have a conversation with a girl because i think she is attractive. I will let her catch me stairing at her. Yep, more then once. And i will give a little smile. Depending on her reaction. That is if she ever even notices me. I may approach her.

Answer 4

Asker

Okay, he does stare a lot. All the time. He makes eye contact all the time too. There's pretty much never a time when he doesn't make eye contact. He also will tell me when/if a guy customers was staring at me or tells me that they ask where I am. He's bilingual, so those conversations happened in Spanish, obviously.

Answer 5

Natehunter199

So he must be someone you know and talk to already

Answer 6

Asker

We work together, yes. I didn't know him before I started working there. We don't see each other a lot when he is in school because he asks to work less in order to make time for it. He got super excited after not seeing me for a month. He was bouncing off the walls, asking me how I was and telling me he liked my nails and stuff.

Answer 7

Natehunter199

Well it sounds like he has already given you hints. And he is probably waiting on you now

Answer 8

Asker

Well, I don't know what to do. We don't talk outside of work, and I feel like he doesn't engage with me outside of work because he doesn't want to make things awkward, or has a line drawn with seeing coworkers. I'll tell you this, he becomes clumsy when he's around me. I've seen him drop things many times in my presence 😂 he even has stumbled over words as well

Answer 9

Natehunter199

Yep, he has a thing for you. Just siply ask him if he would like to do something out side of work some time and exchange number

Answer 10

Asker

We've got each other's numbers, but last time I suggested doing something, he freaked out. Then again, that was when we barely knew each other. It's been a little over a year now that I've worked there. Anytime I try to message him, he doesn't respond anyway. So I've given up on trying to do that. I've tried on my end 🤷

Answer 11

Natehunter199

Then i guess he isn't ready

Answer 12

Asker

Weeeeeeeelllp 😭😭😭 I don't know how to proceed, then. He's always (according to your confirmations) showing me that he likes me, but doesn't make any effort outside of the workplace. I don't know what about me makes him so nervous that he drops stuff and stumbles over words, and laughs at everything I say, and often copies/mimicks/mirrors me.

Answer 13

Natehunter199

Im as stumped as you are

Answer 14

Youdontknowme1234

no he definitely likes you. he's just too awkward to say anything outside of the workplace. just talk to him in person (probably in private) and just ask him out, make it casual so it seems like you want to hang out with him as a friend, but be obvious that you like him. if that makes sense

Answer 15

Asker

@Youdontknowme1234 that does make sense, but I've already done that once and he freaked out and got all awkward about it. But of course, that was when we only knew each other for two months. It's been a little over a year now, but I'm afraid that I'll get the same reaction from him 😭😭 he never even hints about doing things outside of work with me. You'd think he would, but he hints about anything else except that lol

Answer 16

maxdoesss

Xper 4

He talks to everyone but you

Asker

1 mo
How does that even...😂😂😂😂
maxdoesss

1 mo
People are weird 😁
Asker

1 mo
Well he doesn't do that 😂

Answer 17

Asker

How does that even...😂😂😂😂

Answer 18

maxdoesss

People are weird 😁

Answer 19

Asker

Well he doesn't do that 😂

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