It's mainly because that's all we have experienced in today's society 😬 I cannot speak for all guys, but most of the guys that have complimented me, I could tell that they were just wanting to bed me instead of treating me like a person and simply just telling me. Like you said, their eyes give it away, and I could always tell that they had other motives. Another thing is that we aren't used to hearing it, so it makes us feel weird when we actually hear the words. Girl world is filled with false images of what beauty is defined as on social media, and many of us fall prey to that trap. (i. e. Skinny = pretty, light eyes = pretty, freckles = pretty, etc) I personally am not used to being told I'm attractive in any way, so it makes me feel weird. However, if a girl hears it from the guy she actually likes, she'll appreciate it cuz it is from the person she wants to hear it from. I hope that perspective helped 😂 if you don't mind me asking, what will his eyes look like? Will there be a sparkle in them? A shine? A softness? My crush has brown eyes, so it's actually hard for me to tell whether his pupils are dilated or not
You will just catch him stairing. More then just once. See, if it is me and i just simply want to have a conversation with a girl because i think she is attractive. I will let her catch me stairing at her. Yep, more then once. And i will give a little smile. Depending on her reaction. That is if she ever even notices me. I may approach her.
Okay, he does stare a lot. All the time. He makes eye contact all the time too. There's pretty much never a time when he doesn't make eye contact. He also will tell me when/if a guy customers was staring at me or tells me that they ask where I am. He's bilingual, so those conversations happened in Spanish, obviously.
So he must be someone you know and talk to already
We work together, yes. I didn't know him before I started working there. We don't see each other a lot when he is in school because he asks to work less in order to make time for it. He got super excited after not seeing me for a month. He was bouncing off the walls, asking me how I was and telling me he liked my nails and stuff.
Well it sounds like he has already given you hints. And he is probably waiting on you now
Well, I don't know what to do. We don't talk outside of work, and I feel like he doesn't engage with me outside of work because he doesn't want to make things awkward, or has a line drawn with seeing coworkers. I'll tell you this, he becomes clumsy when he's around me. I've seen him drop things many times in my presence 😂 he even has stumbled over words as well
Yep, he has a thing for you. Just siply ask him if he would like to do something out side of work some time and exchange number
We've got each other's numbers, but last time I suggested doing something, he freaked out. Then again, that was when we barely knew each other. It's been a little over a year now that I've worked there. Anytime I try to message him, he doesn't respond anyway. So I've given up on trying to do that. I've tried on my end 🤷
Then i guess he isn't ready
Weeeeeeeelllp 😭😭😭 I don't know how to proceed, then. He's always (according to your confirmations) showing me that he likes me, but doesn't make any effort outside of the workplace. I don't know what about me makes him so nervous that he drops stuff and stumbles over words, and laughs at everything I say, and often copies/mimicks/mirrors me.
Im as stumped as you are
no he definitely likes you. he's just too awkward to say anything outside of the workplace. just talk to him in person (probably in private) and just ask him out, make it casual so it seems like you want to hang out with him as a friend, but be obvious that you like him. if that makes sense
@Youdontknowme1234 that does make sense, but I've already done that once and he freaked out and got all awkward about it. But of course, that was when we only knew each other for two months. It's been a little over a year now, but I'm afraid that I'll get the same reaction from him 😭😭 he never even hints about doing things outside of work with me. You'd think he would, but he hints about anything else except that lol
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How does that even...😂😂😂😂
People are weird 😁
Well he doesn't do that 😂