How do you decide someone is attracted to you?

Question

Could be on a date or in other situations.

Answer 1

DizzyDesii | 385 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

Sometimes you can see it in the eye contact. But i need them to say it to be sure

Yaaten

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How? 'Daniela1982' (above) also mentioned the eyes, but what is it that I'm supposed to be looking for? When I look into a person's eyes, all I see are... eyes.
Avicenna

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@Yaaten: Id rely on things other than the eyes
Yaaten

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Such as?
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Avicenna

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@Yaaten how close she is to you (seared or standing), signs of nervousness, smile and facial expressions, whether she touches you or what she touches.
Avicenna

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Exes are useful when she stares into yours, or in conjunction with a smile. A smile is also very important.
Yaaten

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Oh, okay. Thanks. :)

Answer 2

Yaaten

How? 'Daniela1982' (above) also mentioned the eyes, but what is it that I'm supposed to be looking for? When I look into a person's eyes, all I see are... eyes.

Answer 3

Avicenna

@Yaaten: Id rely on things other than the eyes

Answer 4

Yaaten

Such as?

Answer 5

Avicenna

@Yaaten how close she is to you (seared or standing), signs of nervousness, smile and facial expressions, whether she touches you or what she touches.

Answer 6

Avicenna

Exes are useful when she stares into yours, or in conjunction with a smile. A smile is also very important.

Answer 7

Yaaten

Oh, okay. Thanks. :)

Answer 8

bannacookies | 70 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Yoda

I simply ask.
I am very blunt. Lol

Daniela1982

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Is that before or after you give him a blow job?
Avicenna

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@Daniela1982:Now that’s uncalled for.
Bidensucks2020

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@Daniela1982 oh my
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Daniela1982

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@Bidensucks2020 You loved it Biden
Daniela1982

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What? I was just asking a hypothetical question.
bannacookies

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@Daniela1982 Inappropriate behavior and very uncalled for.
Daniela1982

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Bite me you wusses. I mean really, people talk about anal and every other type of sex and you think my reply is sick? What the fuck! Maybe you wusses need to go back to Facebook/

Answer 9

Daniela1982

Is that before or after you give him a blow job?

Answer 10

Avicenna

@Daniela1982:Now that’s uncalled for.

Answer 11

Bidensucks2020

@Daniela1982 oh my

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Daniela1982

@Bidensucks2020 You loved it Biden

Answer 13

Daniela1982

What? I was just asking a hypothetical question.

Answer 14

bannacookies

@Daniela1982 Inappropriate behavior and very uncalled for.

Answer 15

Daniela1982

Bite me you wusses. I mean really, people talk about anal and every other type of sex and you think my reply is sick? What the fuck! Maybe you wusses need to go back to Facebook/

Answer 16

Cynicaldreamer | 294 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Influencer

Well I tend to be dense when it comes that, so I tell guys upfront: if they're attracted to me, TELL ME!
No subtle flirting, teasing, or leaving me wondering. In the past when I tried to decipher those cues, it led to guys not being attracted to me as more than a friend because they were just being nice, or I read them wrong.
Besides, at my age, it's much easier to just tell someone how you feel about them rather than making assumptions.

Avicenna

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That’s likely to turn guys off. I do understand why you do it, though.

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Avicenna

That’s likely to turn guys off. I do understand why you do it, though.

Answer 18

Physics-Man

Yoda

The signs I've notice are:

She stares at me for prolonged periods of time, and doesn't look away even if I catch her, if she's an aggressive flirt and confident in herself. If she's shy, she'll look away.

She makes repeated glances towards and away from me. She'll sometimes use something in the environment as an excuse to look at me, like hearing a sound in my direction or looking at another object of interest near me in order to make a few glances at me.

She twirls her hair with her finger while tilting her head or eyes towards me.

She smiles at me multiple times. More than just coincidentally.

We smile when we see something that makes us happy. But it may make a girl appear weird when they see us and she smiles for no reason; it gives it away. So she might try to resist smiling. But I can usually tell when they're doing this.

She'll lightly touch me on my shoulder or arm unnecessarily.

She'll act differently around me. Like become reserved, silent, or shy. Especially if she's with her friends.

She turns red.

Usually I'll come to the conclusion that she likes me only after displaying several of these signs.

gemgem03

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oh no i turn red ever so easy and it ruins everything

Answer 19

gemgem03

oh no i turn red ever so easy and it ruins everything

Answer 20

Daniela1982 | 63 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

The look in her eyes, her smile, and touching you, like your hand or arm. If she giggles at a not-so-great joke you got her. At least that is what I do when I am attracted to someone. But then again I'm weird but love humor, unlike a lot of people on this site.

Daniela1982

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Yaaten

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The giggling at not-so-great jokes: could that just be because she is trying to be polite?
Daniela1982

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@Yaaten It certainly could be, but when you like someone you do a lot of things you wouldn't normally do.
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Yaaten

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Hmmm, I did not know that. It's just that only two days ago I went to a shop I often go to for lunch (virtually every day), and one of the people who works there asked me why I wasn't having what I usually have. I replied with a rather lame joke, and one of the other (female) workers laughed and said something, and I responded to that with another (lame, in my view) joke, and she laughed again... I got the impression she was just being polite, because I then said something like, "Oh come on, it wasn't that funny".
I'm very new at this. Interacting with other people that is. Especially the female ones. Maybe I should watch a David Attenborough documentary on the subject (or something).
Avicenna

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Personally, I rely on body language, but the jokes thing issometimes right on themoney

Answer 21

Daniela1982

I got something for my upvoter.
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Answer 22

Yaaten

The giggling at not-so-great jokes: could that just be because she is trying to be polite?

Answer 23

Daniela1982

@Yaaten It certainly could be, but when you like someone you do a lot of things you wouldn't normally do.

Answer 24

Yaaten

Hmmm, I did not know that. It's just that only two days ago I went to a shop I often go to for lunch (virtually every day), and one of the people who works there asked me why I wasn't having what I usually have. I replied with a rather lame joke, and one of the other (female) workers laughed and said something, and I responded to that with another (lame, in my view) joke, and she laughed again... I got the impression she was just being polite, because I then said something like, "Oh come on, it wasn't that funny".
I'm very new at this. Interacting with other people that is. Especially the female ones. Maybe I should watch a David Attenborough documentary on the subject (or something).

Answer 25

Avicenna

Personally, I rely on body language, but the jokes thing issometimes right on themoney

Answer 26

silvermoon84

Explorer

I might speculate as to whether or not he’s attracted to me based on how he interacts with me, but I don’t actually “decide” he’s attracted to me unless he tells me. I’ve made that mistake in the past only to end up disappointed after I realized I was wrong.

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pizzalovershouse | 284 opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Guru

I adk them how they view me

Answer 28

Nathan21211

Xper 3

If she find time to spend with you

Answer 29

Paris13 | 2.3K opinions shared on Flirting topic.

Master

Personality. xx

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