I don't have his number. Also I've stopped contacting him first on social media.
by the way here’s more info:I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact?
All excellent questions... The answers can range from very good to very bad. I suggest you stop wondering and get some answers. I post this all the time about guy. The fail to cross 2 of 4 bridges with girls.1 meet the girl2 ask for the date3 kiss the girl4 getting intimate Your crush seems to be failing to cross bridge 2. Why not help him out a little and get your answers in one single step. Ask HIM out for a date.DON'T do it over text. Ask for his number and give him a call. Then just ask. Keep it simple, like lunch or ice cream. Get physical enough for him to know you are attracted to him. Holding hands or a first kiss is a safe idea.If he balks, you know he is not into you. On to the next...
So I should just ignore him?
Its upto you. If you want, you can continue pursuing. He may even end up liking you more than other girls who text him. But its your choice to make. If you are okay with being the one who pursue the guy. If it matters that much to you, then I suggest let it go. No need to ignore. Just dont start conversation.
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Rarely like every couple weeks. Shiuld I text him more often? I just don't want to seem desperate.
Ohh. I think you should text him more often. at least once in every two days and make it daily. Then try not texting him for a day. If he's interested, he'll text you.
If he was interested in me wouldn't he initiate first?
Even now since I've texted him first few times already?
He might not be interested as you are
Is it possible that hyness prevents him for reaching out first?
Yeah, that's why I told you to test him. If he really wanna talk, he will come to you
by the way here’s more info:I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive when I contact him.
Oh I see. I think he would love to get more texts from you.
Why do u think so haha?
I don't send emojis and hearts to a person I don't like. Try your luck lol
He didn't technically sent heart. He liked my message and wheb you like a message on instagram dm's heart icon will appear below the message. He could easily not do that lol. What do u think?
Haha. Ummm.. hard to judge. You might be just a friend for him. Whatever, text often.
So I should just keep texting him first?
Yeah. Make him miss you. You need to text him everyday for that. You need to get really close.