Missing someone who doesn’t miss you?

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I miss someone so much that I wanted to call them. But when I see that he didn’t contacted me those 2 months I feel that he’s not missing me back. We had little argument in our last conversation, it so silly doesn’t need to be mentioned. But he didn’t bother to call me or text me. I usually do the texting and calling, but this time I waited for him to initiate it. Now since it’s been 2 months, would I look stupid if I call him, I really miss his voice but I want to keep my pride 😭
Should I call him, or not?

Answer 1

Imcmullan

Explorer

He could be thinking the same thing, "obviously you don't miss me if she hasn't contacted me." I say , try. If his response isn't what you wanted then at least you know you tried.

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Coffeeaddicts

1 y
He knows that I love him, he didn’t say it back tho. That why I feel he won’t be missing me
Imcmullan

1 y
I'd leave that alone then.. if you said , I love you n it wasn't returned then he just doesn't feel the way you do.. the feeling sucks but its unfortunately what it is. It doesn't make you less loveable... don't take it personal.. there will be a time if it hasn't happened already, where someone is in love with you however, you won't feel the same... just move forward and try to date someone else. Don't search for him to miss you bc even if he does miss you, he isn't in love with you like you are him... if the feelings can't be returned then don't keep dwelling on the past. You've been strong n stayed away for 2 months, you got this.. u are on the right road to recovering your broken heart.
Coffeeaddicts

1 y
You’re right. I should walk away. But I want to be friend with him.
He flirted and showed interest in me but I don’t want to keep it going, been a year since I was talking with Him as a friend.
But I really miss him now, but every time I want to call I feel that he doesn’t feel the same.
Maybe I should do what you said, walk away for good
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Imcmullan

1 y
Until your romantic feelings are gone, yes walk away. Itll only hurt more if you try to communicate.. there is so many fish in the sea... don't dwell on the one that's dead.

Answer 2

Coffeeaddicts

He knows that I love him, he didn’t say it back tho. That why I feel he won’t be missing me

Answer 3

Imcmullan

I'd leave that alone then.. if you said , I love you n it wasn't returned then he just doesn't feel the way you do.. the feeling sucks but its unfortunately what it is. It doesn't make you less loveable... don't take it personal.. there will be a time if it hasn't happened already, where someone is in love with you however, you won't feel the same... just move forward and try to date someone else. Don't search for him to miss you bc even if he does miss you, he isn't in love with you like you are him... if the feelings can't be returned then don't keep dwelling on the past. You've been strong n stayed away for 2 months, you got this.. u are on the right road to recovering your broken heart.

Answer 4

Coffeeaddicts

You’re right. I should walk away. But I want to be friend with him.
He flirted and showed interest in me but I don’t want to keep it going, been a year since I was talking with Him as a friend.
But I really miss him now, but every time I want to call I feel that he doesn’t feel the same.
Maybe I should do what you said, walk away for good

Answer 5

Imcmullan

Until your romantic feelings are gone, yes walk away. Itll only hurt more if you try to communicate.. there is so many fish in the sea... don't dwell on the one that's dead.

Answer 6

Gwenhwyfar

Master

U should text him

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